02/10/2026
Bodies change. All the time, from minute to minute, hour to hour, day by day, and year by year.
That is part of the human experience.
It’s okay to not be okay with that, uncomfortable with it.
It’s okay to feel awkward or foreign in it.
It’s okay to feel in a rut with it.
It’s okay to not always be happy or content with it.
It’s NOT okay to not be kind to it.
I know it’s hard, especially for athletes or ex athletes out there transitioning through life, growing up, seeing and feeling the changes.
It’s REALLY HARD.
My body has changed SO much in life outside of college sport. And even when I love my body so much for how strong and capable and resilient it is, it can be hard to be nice to it. It can be hard to separate who I am, my passions, my skills, and my likability from certain versions of my body. Separate it from my worth, my abilities, and my potential. I am a nutrition professional and often have to touch on body acceptance, body image, and self worth with nutrition and I STILl have tears and emotional times about the changes at times.
It’s really hard. I hear you. I see you.
It’s okay to grieve. It’s okay to have these thoughts but it’s what you do with the thoughts that matter.
Grieve, be upset but as you sit in the discomfort your next move has to acknowledge your body is your home.
You get to choose to feed it, move it, speak to it like a friend.
Grieve, but choose to move through the grief.
Your body moves you, warms you, lets you think, eat, sleep, connect. It grows with you through life. You aren’t the same person you were last year, or even yesterday. Let your body change as you change.
Say a nice thing to that body today.