11/11/2025
“I need your honest opinions on this situation 👇”
I’ve been dating this amazing lady for a while, and my intentions with her are very serious — I truly want to marry her.
Recently, we agreed that I should visit her family officially. When I got there, I met only her dad. During our conversation, he asked about my place of work, and I told him. Then he asked how much I earn.
I respectfully replied that I felt the question was a bit inappropriate and that if he really wanted to know, he could ask his daughter instead.
That response didn’t sit well with him — he called me arrogant and asked me to leave. I explained that I felt the question was a bit disrespectful to my personality, but he insisted that unless I come back to apologize and beg him, I should never show my face again.
Now I’m confused. Should I apologize just to save the relationship, or stand my ground since I meant no disrespect?
What would you do if you were in my shoes? Let’s talk in the comments.