14/04/2025
"My name is Betrand. I'm responding to my wife, who has put the blame on me because our son was pøizønêd by my side chick & went into comma.
I never planned for all this. It has never been my fault but rather my wife's if anything had gone wrong in our marriage. First, I waited for this lady for 4 good years after I proposed to her. She insisted on completing her education first before marrying me.
After her graduation, she started acting uninterested in the marriage cuz she found out I was cheating on her, which is something that I regret. I didn't mean to cheat on her all those years. This lady denied me sgz for 6 good months, when we were dating claiming it was her final exams period & she needed to focus on graduating with good results. She kept complaining & said she'd have to stop visiting me. So, I had no choice but to start seeing other women.
Imagine being sægzx-starved by your fiance' for 6 good months; what was I expected to do? What normal man survives without sægz for 6 months for God's sake? What was I supposed to do when the woman I call my own & wants to marry keeps her body away from me all in the name of exams?
Later, after her graduation, when she discovered I had several affairs with other women, she started acting up & was no longer interested in the marriage. Knowing fully well that she pushed me into it cheating. So, when I saw a public post made about me by my wife, I wasn't surprised because that's how she has always been, always acting the victim.
However, I pleaded to change & become more responsible after our marriage. Both families even had to step in before she agreed to continue with the marriage. First, I denied her continuing her education because I know that it isn't advisable for a man to marry a woman who is more educated than him. i didn't even complete secondary school. But the woman i wanted to marry wanted to complete her university education. She insisted. I let that slide cuz of the love I had for her.
After marriage, I didn't want her to work cuz I knew she wouldn't have time for me, her husband. But she insisted on working despite my refusal. She disrespected my wishes & rules as the head & chief commander of the house & in my own house. After our first child, 3 years after our son was born, she claimed I wasn't treating her nicely just cuz I refused to buy her new clothes and a phone, since I believed she didn't really need to go anywhere that important that she'd be needing many clothes or people to call, since she's always at home.
Yet she disrespected me and still went ahead to get a job with her certificate as an accountant, insisting that she wanted to be able to provide & support her family as a firstborn. I didn't mean to bring those women I was seeing home. I was doing all these things & also sleeping with our house help just to teach her a lesson not to abandon her husband and be claiming a working-class lady.
Unfortunately, one of them, out of desperation to marry me, got our 3yr old son poezunened with fruit juice, & he went into a coma. I honestly regret this. I didn't know my actions would affect my son. Luckily, God intervened, & he's fine now. I'm a very responsible man. And I'm usually not like this put this wøman has pushed me to the wall
Its been 4yrs of marriage. All this drama in our marriage has never been my fault but that of my wife . Juliette if you think I have any regrets, then you're joking. All these happened because of your fault. You disrespected me as your husband & the man of the house. If you think divorcing me has affected me in any way is a big laugh cuz I'm not a poor man, neither am I an uklyy man. I'll replace you with a snap of a finger.
And, I'm willing to sign the divorce papers, but as you know, you & your family must & will have to repay everything I've ever bought for you since the first day I met you, including even a hygiene pad; And I mean everything. I pity the next man who will get into a relationship with you."
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