29/07/2026
5 Signs a Man Is Using You, Not Truly Loving You
1. He only contacts you when he needs something. If he disappears until he wants money, favours, or attention, that’s a warning sign.
2. He avoids commitment. He enjoys the benefits of the relationship but refuses to define it or make future plans with you.
3. Your feelings don’t matter to him. A man who loves you listens, cares, and respects your emotions instead of constantly dismissing them.
4. He puts in little effort. You’re always the one calling, texting, sacrificing, and making things work while he does the bare minimum.
5. He only shows affection in private or when it’s convenient. If he hides the relationship or only wants you around when it suits him, ask yourself why.
