05/12/2025
Maybe the clingiest babies really do end up with the moms who never felt like anyone’s first choice.
The moms who grew up feeling like the backup plan.
The second pick.
The “call her if no one else answers.”
And then motherhood happens…
and suddenly there’s this tiny human who reaches for you first.
Who cries for you.
Who melts the second your arms wrap around them.
It hits different when you’ve never been chosen like that before.
When you’ve never been the safe place, the favorite person,
the one someone literally can’t fall asleep without.
But now you are.
Every single day.
And maybe that’s the healing part
finally learning what it feels like to be loved first by someone who doesn’t even know how to love you any other way. 💛