06/16/2026
Please help me choose! Only these dresses!!!
I’m torn between two dresses……
OK, OK. So I need to know all your thoughts. I think I know the answer, but I’m feeling overwhelmed and emotional and need feedback that isn’t from my family or friends/bride because I’m starting to feel like I have to find a dress that everyone will love equally. I’m getting married on 8/26/16 at a wedding in downtown Seattle and then we’re renting out a French restaurant on the waterfront at Pile Place for a fancy dinner party. A party for 45 people, with dancing and drinks afterwards.
I think dress A would be it. I really overdid it for myself and my bride, and when I tried it on, I loved the collar and the corset style bodice. The problem is that it felt flat from the bottom down and it also had a big slit that not only didn’t look good, but I’m on the spectrum and slits add so much emotion. But it’s my favorite top on any dress I’ve ever tried on. I felt pretty, but it almost felt like I was a guest at someone else’s fancy party, right? If that makes sense?
And then there was the B dress. I didn’t expect to like the dress at all, thinking it would make me look too open, which would make the neckline look unflattering because I’m heavier than all the models I’ve seen. And oh my! I was wrong. I love it. It fits me so well and it’s so comfortable. I can bend and dance, but it also feels like it fits the classic Seattle vibe. I also feel like a bride….
I guess I was just hesitant to order the B dress because it’s non-refundable and I was afraid of my anxiety/self-doubt and my people would be happy to get the best of me. So far, my aunt and aunt (surrogate mother) both B and the 2/4 bride have the same thing. The 1/4 bride says she likes the A dress better. I haven’t responded yet, but knowing her, she’ll probably choose the B dress.
I guess I’m just hoping to see what some of you think about which dress looks best on me and fits the theme the best? I'm not sure why it bothers me so much that one of my best friends doesn't like it as much as the other best friend, but I'm trying to remember that it's my day and my dress? I don't know why it's so hard lol.