02/26/2026
For those who may not know the story behind Hope Kitchen—this is more than a catering service.
Hope Kitchen, an initiative of DFW Refugee Outreach Services is made up of struggling refugee women whom I have had the honor of mentoring and supporting as they build a livelihood with dignity. These women face language barriers and financial hardship, yet they show up with determination, pride, and integrity to earn an honest living.
It is deeply disheartening to see people order from Hope Kitchen, haggle over already reasonable prices, and then arrive to pick up food saying they don’t have cash and will “Zelle later.”
These women are trusting. When someone promises sincerely, they believe them.
Recently, a gentleman ordered food for his Nikkah and still owes the remaining balance. Week after week, he promises payment “shortly.” Meanwhile, the women who worked tirelessly to prepare that food are left waiting.
Despite being trained to clearly state that payment is due at pickup, they hesitate to be firm—because they trust people to honor their word.
But let’s be honest:
When you order from any restaurant, you know you do not receive your food without paying.
Why, then, is it acceptable to treat struggling women differently?
$200 is not a small amount for families who are already doing their best to survive. It is beneath their dignity to have to chase payment or repeatedly remind someone who benefited from their labor.
I have now made this non-negotiable:
➡️ No food is released without full payment—no matter the excuse. Please bring cash or Zelle payment before expecting to be handed your food.
This is not about rigidity.
It is about respect, fairness, and dignity.
Please extend the same courtesy and decency you would give any restaurant.
And please, do not take advantage of their goodness.
Their work deserves to be honored.
Update: A generous soul reached out and paid the balance due. Thank you for your kindness.
Thank you to the community for your support and for the 50% due upfront idea. We will be implementing this.
