05/14/2023
"MY FAMILY"; MOM, DADDY & what they taught.
They lived in a time when you had to do for yourself and work for what you needed. I learned so much for both of them. Their past and for the future will forever be part of me and I try to pass the lessons on to my family.
Taking care of our home and the people that depend on you was never easy to understand while growing up but have become so very clear. WORKING every day to provide the little things means giving up the things that you would like to have for yourself. Taking the time to show and teach our "little ones" how to do takes LOADS of love, time and determination.
At home we learned how to take care of ourselves because MOM, DADDY both worked so much to provide for the necessary things. A roof over our heads, clothes, shoes and food to eat were not cheap, more so in the '1960's and '1970's than even today. Imagin trying to teach 5 boys how to take care of themselves, their home and clothes! CLEAN, CLEAN and CLEAN some more, what a concept! Then try to "FEED" them!
Kids are always hungry, back then there wasn't a lot of 'instant', ready-made food like today. Both MOM, DADDY were always "teaching" us how to cook or feed ourselves. I learned how to cook everything from toast to stake or fried chicken and everything in between.
Taking care of our home and hat we had was something else that they devoted so much of their time to. Clean your room, clean your clothes, clean the "YARD", take care of your 'pets, farm animals' and the 'BARN'. It was always something! But they were always there to teach and push the IMPORTANCE of these "chores". Until you have to do this yourself you just cannot grasp how much time or the pressure this can be! Yet they did, over and over and over again.
MOM, DADDY believed in "family" and helping those that cared for them when they were growing up. This too they tried to instill in us. One such thing I will always remember was how Daddy would take time to help his 'Grand-paw' as often as possible. We spent a lot of time at the 'Old Home Stead', aka, Nowlin's Dairy doing yard work, repairing the barn or fences, putting hay in the barn and so on. Yes, it was often hard work, but I learned many things. The MAIN thing I 'learned' was love and respect for the people that loved and cared for you and gave up so much for you.
They are gone now, but never forgotten. All that I have left of those times are a few pictures BUT the memories are strong and recurring. I think the old Two-Story Red Brick house is still hidden back off 10-Mile Road, but the 'Nowlin's Dairy' barn has been torn down. Many, many days were spent playing and working in that barn and for that I am thankful. They just don't build them like that anymore but for me it will always be back there, hidden among the big old oak trees.