06/12/2026
Last December I attended my fathers graduation from the University of Miami, its a long story, but he had a 60 year break between classes and decided to go back to finish his degree. In any case, as I was sitting and listening to the commencement speaker, it crossed my mind as to what I would say if I were to be asked to fulfill such a honorable obligation.
So here goes…
Dear graduating class of 2026,
There are a million pieces of advice you will receive in the coming years, some worth heeding, and plenty worth ignoring. I know I could share all of the mistakes I have made and caution you to avoid them, but I believe the most important piece of wisdom I can offer is this: be extremely intentional about the surroundings in which you place yourself.
A career working in urban planning and community development has taught me one invaluable lesson. We become the places we inhabit. Just as a plant won’t grow larger than its pot will allow, people rarely grow larger than their place allows. As my colleague Ryan Short so succinctly put it, “place is like water to fish.” And fish are never healthier than the streams or lakes they swim in, and people don’t tend to be healthier than the neighborhoods and communities they live in.
Humanity’s greatest attribute is our ability to adapt. As a species, we inhabit every single corner of this planet, from the frozen tundras of the poles to the deserts of the equator. People even live in Orlando, they say. We have managed to adapt to every conceivable habitat because we are, in fact, remarkably adaptable. This has allowed our species to thrive, but it also comes at a cost. When our surroundings are healthy and cared for, we adapt and grow healthier alongside them. When they are not, we adapt in unhealthy ways.
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