03/09/2026
The rollercoaster of newborn foster care.
Newborns in foster care are a whole different kind of rollercoaster.
We don’t always get a history. We may not know if Mum was vaccinated, whether she received the care she needed, or most importantly, whether these tiny babies ever received the colostrum they needed in those first precious hours.
So we start from where they are.
For the first 72 hours, it can mean 2-hourly feeds around the clock, encouraging that tiny sucking reflex, making sure they’re hydrated, monitoring every 💩 and trying to help bodies that are still learning how to regulate their own temperature.
And then there’s the feeding yoyo.
One feed they absolutely nail. The next they struggle. Then they refuse several in a row and your heart sinks.
Is this just a tired baby?
Are they warm enough?
Is it time for the vet?
Knowing when to intervene, when to fight and when to simply let a little body rest is one of the hardest parts.
And when you have a bigger group, there is never a feed where everyone is perfect.
Someone has a mucky bum.
Someone hasn’t finished their bottle.
Someone looks just a little flat.
Someone refuses the bottle.
But amongst the stress, there is SO much joy.
The sleepy baby snuggles.
The little squeaks.
The laughter when they finally figure out how to use those ridiculous little legs and start pottering around on the wooden floors.
And then the chaos begins…
The frustration when someone decides your phone charger is delicious.
Or the wall.
Or your houseplants.
And then… they discover their voice.
That’s when the screaming starts.
The feeding. The changing. The washing. The bottles.
SO. MANY. BOTTLES.
Your entire day starts revolving around feed times, and suddenly you’re calculating how long you have between bottles just to duck to the shops.
It’s exhausting. It’s stressful. It’s messy.
It’s also incredibly rewarding.
Because every little suck, every extra mL, every healthy 💩, every wobbly step and every tiny milestone means they’re getting stronger.
And for these little babies, that’s what we’re here for.
One feed at a time.