19/03/2024
Part 2 - Ella’s birth story ✨
I woke up around 11pm with very strong waves (I was sleeping with Amelie in her bedroom), to find out hubby got a gastro bug from one of the kids party we went and was vomiting since 9pm and at this point he was so sick, tired and weak he couldn’t stand up.
I thought “OMG, is this real?”
How I am going to have a baby with my biggest support down? But my waves were getting stronger and stronger, I had a cry, talked to him and at midnight we decided to call my sister (the plan was to have her there anyway).
She came straight away, my oldest daughter was still asleep, my sister arrived, helped me with massages and to get me in the shower, my waves were strong and 2/3min apart, Ella was definitely coming.
I called my midwife and she asked me to keep monitoring and if the waves kept strong to call again and meet at the hospital.
I cried again, hubby was definitely not in a shape to support me.
It was 2 am, my waves started to space out and stopped.
I didn’t understand at the moment, but my mind stopped my body and baby Ella decided to wait for her daddy to feel better.
I got dressed and went back to bed, contractions still coming but very light and apart.
My sister had a “nap” in the sofa, the Sun was up again, Monday (20/11/2023).
My daughter woke up, I made her breakfast, also eat breakfast myself, I wasn’t hungry, but I knew I will need the fuel later.
Her godparents took her to daycare and I went back to bed, I was tired, frustrated and of course anxious.
All the signs of labour were gone and I had no idea when they will be back.
Thiago was still in bed, recovering he had hydrolites, apples and was doing his best to get up on his feet and support me.
We both rested or at least tried as long as we could, and…