10/23/2026
It may look like a wedding dress but it is not. This is a picture of Grampie Penney’s first cousin, Arleen Hollis. Grampie Penney’s mother Lois and Arleen’s mother, Tessie, were sisters who were two of the fifteen children born to Joseph Freeman Morton (known as Freeman) and Hannah Lavenia Hawkesworth-Morton of Watford. Grammy Lois was the eleventh child and Aunt Tessie was lucky number thirteen. There were five boys and ten girls in that family. Graduation from high school was a very big deal, an honour earned, not given. This may even have been a higher level graduation. The cousins out west will know. The picture is undated but thank heavens a name was written in the back.
At graduations in the past, girls wore white dresses. It was a tradition but there were also practical reasons. When women were finally allowed to attend colleges and universities in the late 19th and 20th centuries, it was decided that the women would wear white. Like a wedding dress, white represented a fresh start, new beginnings, and that age old word strapped on women, “purity”. There were also practical reasons for the decision to wear white. If a woman was graduating from a university in cap and gown, the old gowns were sometimes made of thin material. Bright colours would have shown through and “ruined the aesthetic” of the pictures. Everyone wearing white was also a show of unity, meaning that the focus remained on a group achievement and not an individual’s. White was also a blank slate to show off colorful honour cords, sashes, and stoles. Lastly, white was a practical choice as it is a cool colour that reflects sunlight, unlike black that absorbs the heat, helpful during hot late spring and summer graduations. The girls wore white.
Arleen is wearing a wide waistband dress, fitting snugly below the bosom around her midsection like a cummerbund (a word taken from Hindi “kamarband” that means loin band which came from Persian “kamar” = waist + “band” something that ties) on a tuxedo. The dress is long sleeved with a wide wrist band to show off the puffy sleeves. The dress itself is maxi length, long and lovely. The bosom of the dress is full of tucks and pleats, using up lots of material. The neckline is u-shaped and a lovely necklace or locket can clearly be seen. In her right hand she is holding a book of some type.
As lovely as the dress actually is, it is the smile of joy and pride on Arleen’s face that draws the eyes. Her hair is cut short and is thick with curls. She is wearing eyeglasses to improve her vision. Put everything together and one has a picture of a beautiful, young, accomplished woman proudly marking her graduation. That smile lights up her face with a glow that can still be seen many, many decades later. There is always pride when one works hard for an accomplishment. When something is handed to someone on a platter (Dare I say much like the education system today?) too much is taken for granted. To quote Grammie and Grampie Penney, “Hard work never killed anyone.” That is not necessarily totally true but the sentiment can be understood. It is how earlier generations were raised, knowing one had to work for what one wanted. Clearly, Arleen Hollis had done just that as we see her in her graduation dress.