09/22/2026
I am not everyone's cup of tea.
I am too much for some people.
To others I am too quiet… off putting.. and maybe even stuck up.
To some I am a step mom.
Someone who could lose a few pounds.
Someone who needs to get it together.
I make lists only to forget them.
To others I am a career driven, too organized, structured, planners.
Do you see the trend here.
I am always going to be too much for some and not enough for others.
When in reality I am both.
I am equal parts loud and quiet.
I am career driven and a hot mess.
As women we worry too much about other people think or what we think they might be thinking.
We create judgements in our own heads.
We over analyze text messages.
We worry why we didn’t get the invite .
we see glances and whispers and assume they are directed at us.
We waste so much of our time worrying about what others peoples opinions of us are.
We try so hard to bend fifty different ways to fit a mild in hopes of somehow satisfying everyone else, only to leave ourselves feeling empty.
Why?
Why do we do this to ourselves?
For what?
This is your journey.
In the words of Rachel Hollis stop apologizing!
Stop worrying about what others think.
If you have done something to hurt someone by all means own it and apologize.
Do the right thing.. but stop apologizing for things that aren’t your choice.
Stop doubting your self.
Stop looking over your shoulder.
Stop trying to please everyone else.
People.. well people are always going to have an opinion.
People aren’t always going to agree with you, in fact some people aren’t going to like you for no reason than because they can.
But its ok.
Don’t be afraid to go against the tide.
Do your own thing!
Do the thing that sets your soul on fire.. and those people.. they aren’t your people!
