04/18/2026
I’m 10 days away from making my 51st trip around the sun and I couldn’t help but think back on this amazing milestone year.
I made the decision heading into 50 that I would own my golden age and live it fully because life has shown me that aging is one of the most profound gifts. With thanks I accepted the gift and owned it, celebrating it in ways both big and small. Traveling, dancing, singing, eating, drinking and above all memory making with friends and loved ones. So as I prepare to leave this amazing year behind me and head into the next, I’d like to share words by someone named Janessa Docking that I came across recently online. They were posted with a caption that read “with every lap of the sun, this right here is my goal”. I’m making this my goal as well.
I don’t want to age gracefully.
I want to age gratefully.
Grateful for the lines that hold my deepest laughter. For the silver strands, woven with love and worry for the hearts I hold dear. For the sun-kissed skin and freckled nose-proof of days well spent under open skies. Grateful for the shifting perspective that comes with age, making life softer, sweeter and just a little wiser.
Another year older means another year lived. And with each passing year, the weight of that privilege feels more profound.
Aging gratefully.