05/08/2026
Today marks our 17th wedding anniversary. The 16th year took us by total surprise and proved to be the most challenging of them all. I never could’ve anticipated the wild ride that the last year has been. Just as no two people are alike, each and every relationship is different, too… and that’s okay! This is a judgement-free zone. The only true constant in this life is change. Aaron and I are currently together, but living separately. He rents a house on the river in town, and I’ve been at our big green house with all the gardens out in Sa****um.
This last year of marriage brought intense pain, joy, confusion, expansion, fear, clarity, brutal honesty, love, strength, vulnerability, and a LOT of personal growth. We have both been working to become the best versions of ourselves that we can be… first and foremost for ourselves, then for our boys and each-other. Writing, sitting with my feet in the river, and chocolate smoothies from Beverly Hills Cafe have gotten me through this time. Relationships can be hard, especially if you refuse to stay stagnant. Growth is sometimes painful, but necessary. I am curious to see what year 17 brings. Very recently, I truly didn’t think we would make it to this anniversary, yet here we are.
One thing I know for sure… adventure is out there! 🏠🎈We are so lucky to be living out our dreams in South America together. Enjoy a collection of some of my favorite photos and moments over the last year with my best friend. 🫶🏻
If you are currently struggling, and need support, please reach out. You don’t have to do it alone. I have learned so much in the last year, during which time I often felt very misunderstood and alone. I cried every single day. Being honest, I’m still crying a lot and can scarcely make it 24 hours without shedding at least a few tears... but it’s getting better. Nobody should have to struggle in silence. I’m here for you. 💚
