30/11/2024
MEN.
As a man don't fall in love with a woman too fast, the day you learn how to discipline your emotions, it's that day you have conquered a strong weakness that has destroyed so many men.
You can love a woman and yet not be desperate or act too needy.
After you have done all the needful to get her to say YES, don't rush things, be calm and control your urge to please her.
BEFORE YOU COMMIT to her you must be informed well enough that she's seriously serious with you and here are some parameters I use to judge her.
1. Accountability:- a woman who loves you and want to be serious with you will by herself be accountable both in deeds and in words, she will always want to involve you in everything in her life including her secrets, she won't be logical at all, very vulnerable in sharing secrets with you. Her transparency is key.
2. Her eagerness to always please you. A woman who is serious with you will make your happiness her priority, she won't want to put you in a position of sadness.
3. Submission:- a woman who is serious with you will always be willing to submit to you, she will respect and adore your words more often. Trust me.
4. Sacrificial :- A woman who is serious with you will always want to invest in you and that relationship, she would give you her time, attention and care this is non negotiable at all.
If this four things are not in place just know that she's playing a serious game with you and you are wasting your time with her, you either play the game with her or break up or allow yourself to learn the hard way..... your choice.
This is how I vet my woman and trust me if you weigh women on this scale void of emotional sentiments you will hardly go wrong trust me.
Learn or perish.
Stay putinized.
