20/07/2026
Happy birthday to our dear Keen, the queen of MELT DOWN 👺 You want a naughty sister to write a post on this... HA!
We have gone through a lot. You might think that we have no problems and we go through everyday smoothly. In actual fact, like anyone with any people with special needs, we will constantly go through a lot of turmoils- be it guilt, be it sadness, be it stress, any negativity you could ever think of. Sometimes I get panic attack and I did really worry that I might kill her one day.
But thank God, I came across a few good books that have taught me how to live NOW and not in the past or future. The Power of Now, if there's a problem, deal with it; if you need to take action, just do it. Whatever that is looping in our mind is always not true. Live in the moment. FOCUS!!!
Frankly, I really thank God that she is here and He has assigned me to be her caregiver. If not I won't be able to grow up strong and I won't be able to meet the amazing people in my life. Can't tell how grateful I am but I know the future will get better and better no matter how the world is changing.
We just need to live in the moment. Stop playing the recorder in your mind which is hindering you from moving forward.
Ganbate, everyone! Especially those who are taking care of a neurodivergent.
