Elo Chukwu

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19/10/2025

As you hustle to acquire wealth, pray for good health to enjoy it,
Sickness that will bring you to zero level financially will not be your portion in Jesus name Amen

19/10/2025

This is the week the Lord has made, you shall rejoice and be glad in it,

Wish you a Blessed Sunday

14/10/2025

THESE 5 SIGNS SHOWS YOU ARE DISPLAYING FAVOURISM AMONGST YOUR CHILDREN.
YOU NEED TO STOP 🛑

Last week, I sat with a mother who was almost in tears.

She told me, “I don’t know why my children fight so much. They don’t seem to love each other.”

I gently asked her a few questions, and slowly she began to realize something: without knowing it, she had been practicing favoritism.

Not the big, obvious kind.

The small, subtle actions that children notice but parents often overlook.

Here are 5 signs you might be showing favoritism among your children and the side effects it can bring.

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1. Always praising one child more than the others

She noticed she often praised her eldest because he was outspoken, but rarely celebrated the quiet achievements of her daughter.

Side effect: One child grows proud, while the other begins to feel invisible and unworthy.

2. Giving more responsibilities to one child, while excusing the other

She always sent her daughter on errands because she was “responsible,” but excused her son because “boys are careless.”

Side effect: One child feels burdened, the other grows entitled. Both develop resentment.

3. Comparing siblings openly

She would often say, “Why can’t you be more like your brother?”

Side effect: Instead of learning from each other, they see each other as rivals.

4. Listening to one child more than the other.

She realized she took her eldest’s complaints seriously but brushed off her younger child’s feelings.

Side effect: One child feels heard and valued, the other feels neglected and unloved.

5. Rewarding one child differently for the same effort

She gave her son a big gift for good grades but only hugged her daughter for the same achievement.

Side effect: The message is clear,love and attention must be earned differently. This breeds jealousy and competition.

By the time she finished talking, she whispered,

“I didn’t mean to.

I love them all the same.”

And that’s the truth for many parents:

favoritism is rarely intentional, but children don’t see intentions. They see actions.

So dear parent, if you notice these signs, pause and reflect.

Every child deserves to feel seen, heard, valued, and loved equally. Because when favoritism sneaks in, it doesn’t just affect today
It shapes how siblings love each other for the rest of their lives.

Remember we are raising children that will shine God's light and influence their generations positively..

I celebrate you ❤️

12/10/2025

*HE RECORDED HIS PARENTS 😭*

Yesterday, I attended a parents’ and guardians’ forum organized by a reputable school — I was there to represent the men in my organization. But nothing, absolutely nothing, could have prepared me for what I heard that day.

A teacher narrated an incident that left the entire hall in stunned silence.

A student’s phone had been seized for violating school rules. His mother, furious, came to the school to demand that her son’s phone be released immediately. After all, “it was her property.”

But the teachers were hesitant. Eventually, they called her aside and quietly revealed why they couldn’t hand over the phone so easily.

What the boy had on that device was beyond comprehension.

The teacher said softly, “Ma, your son was watching an explicit video — and it featured… you and your husband.”

For a moment, the woman froze. Her face drained of color. The entire room gasped.
Yes, you read that right. The boy had somehow recorded his parents during their private moment in their bedroom.

And that wasn’t all.

The teachers said the boy had even bragged to his classmates, saying,

> “Do you know your mother’s ringtone? Come hear my mum’s — and compare it with your girlfriend’s.”

Can you imagine? The mother reportedly broke down in uncontrollable tears right there in the office.

Friends, I couldn’t sleep after hearing this. My mind kept replaying it like a broken record. How did we get here?

Technology has given us access, but it has also opened a floodgate of corruption into the hearts of our children. Phones meant for learning and creativity have become portals of perversion.

But beyond that — what on earth could make a child record his own parents?

Was it curiosity? Was it peer influence? Or was it something darker — cultism, exposure, or just a reflection of the moral decay consuming our society?

I found myself asking painful questions:

⚠️ How did that boy install a camera in his parents’ room without their knowing?
⚠️ What will be the emotional and psychological trauma of the parents when they realize they were filmed by their own child?
⚠️ What drove him to do it — and how long had he been sharing it?
⚠️ How many of his friends have already seen that clip?
⚠️ And above all, what kind of world are we leaving for our children?

This isn’t just a story — it’s a wake-up call.

Our children are silently drowning in a sea of moral confusion. And while many parents are busy hustling for school fees and survival, something more precious is slipping away — the soul of their child.

It’s time to rise — as parents, as teachers, as spiritual leaders, as a community.
The church must speak. The school must watch. And the home must pray and parent intentionally.

Because if we don’t stand up now, we’ll soon be raising a generation that knows technology but has lost humanity.

May God help us not to fail in our parenting.
May grace cover our homes.
And may we raise children who fear God, even in the secret place. 🙏
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12/10/2025

Happy Sunday to you my people

10/10/2025

The way some people are falling in and out of love these days, e be like say some people heart no AI

03/09/2025

Happy birthday to me