11/10/2026
PART 1 — DON’T MARRY FOR LOOKS
Don’t marry somebody just because they are beautiful or handsome.
Looks can attract you, but looks alone cannot give you peace in marriage.
Before you say yes, look at the person’s character.
PART 2 — BEAUTY CAN CHANGE
Today, your partner may look very attractive. But as years pass, everybody changes.
Pregnancy, stress, age and life can change someone’s appearance.
So ask yourself: “If the beauty changes, will I still love this person?”
PART 3 — LOOK AT THE CHARACTER
Before marriage, pay attention to how the person treats people.
How do they talk when they are angry?
How do they treat their family, friends and strangers?
Character will follow you into marriage.
PART 4 — LOOKS DON’T BRING PEACE
You can marry the most beautiful woman or handsome man and still have no peace at home.
A beautiful face cannot solve constant disrespect, lies, anger or cheating.
Choose someone you can build peace with.
PART 5 — DON’T IGNORE RED FLAGS
Sometimes people see the beauty and ignore the bad behaviour.
They say, “He is handsome, he will change.”
Or, “She is beautiful, everything will be fine.”
Please don’t enter marriage hoping that somebody will completely change.
PART 6 — LOOK AT THEIR HEART
Ask yourself:
Is this person kind?
Can they apologize?
Can they communicate?
Can they respect you?
Can they stand with you when life becomes difficult?
Those things matter beyond physical beauty.
PART 7 — BEAUTY IS NOT ENOUGH
Marriage is more than taking beautiful pictures together.
There will be sickness, financial problems, misunderstandings and difficult days.
You need someone whose character can stand with you through those moments.
PART 8 — BEFORE YOU SAY YES
Before you marry because of somebody’s beauty, take your time and know the person.
Don’t only ask, “Is this person beautiful?”
Ask, “Can I build a peaceful life with this person?”
Because beauty may attract you, but character helps shape the marriage.