17/06/2026
TW- Hysterectomy talk!!
Well it’s been almost a year since I had my hysterectomy. It’s a common question for me now, how I am, am I better, did it work. I’ve always welcomed the curiosity, it’s not very common for 24 years olds to have hysterectomies or have been in menopause!
I’ve never been one to shy away from conversations re woman’s health as these are such important issues and aren’t spoken about enough.
I didn’t realise my life could get any richer post surgery but it has. I truly can’t explain just how much this has positively impacted me . Everything is more vibrant.
To live a life with no pain, what a joy it is. It doesn’t come without its subtle undercurrents of confused emotions which make their appearance every now and then, but every time, these are overshadowed by the sheer relief of living in a body that feels like it can breath for the first time.
13 years of intense medications including 2 years of chemical menopause and I am free of it all. Finally free of the pain I didn’t know I could actually live without. The recovery from the surgery felt like a walk in the park compared to my day to day pain!
I feel so utterly grateful and lucky as I know this isn’t the outcome for all women. Whether it be struggling to be seen or heard, or surgery not being the cure. Throughout this journey I have been supported every step of the way, by family, friends and doctors. But that’s not always the case for everyone.
Check in on the people in your life, whether they’re young or older and starting to go through puberty or menopause. It makes the world of difference if you listen and support. I often felt overwhelmed with menopause and it really did help to be able to talk to others about it, to be heard and understood. I know some people may find me too open but this is my reality and if it’s mine then it will be another persons reality too. Start the conversation, it can really be life changing for those around you.
One year of being pain free and it feels like my life is finally my own. This has by far been the biggest decision of my life, but it has also been my best decision. The future is exciting and pain free, finally ❤️