01/26/2026
I remember it like it was yesterday. Dad dropped me off at Gayle Middle in his beat up 84 F250. West coast mirrors and a load of 63 square bales of hay on it. I got out and walking into the school one of the students called me “Farmer Dye!” He was just joking having fun like he always did, but I didn’t want to be a farmer and didn’t want to be called that. I was ashamed for some reason. I didn’t understand back then. We didn’t have ag classes to teach us anything different. It was advanced diplomas and college degrees. No FFA. If you didn’t, you weren’t going to be successful. My granddaddy passed that spring and something clicked with me and agriculture. I felt a responsibility to try to fill the void that was now left. All I knew was that dad worked all the time. I didn’t understand the responsibility he carried and how important it was. Not just to me and our family but to the other 98.5% that didn’t work in agriculture. I’ve seen posts like this but for some reason this just hit a little different. Maybe it’s because I have kids of my own now. And they know that college isn’t for everybody but if it’s not they will learn a trade to contribute to this great world we live in. Maybe it’s agriculture, or HVAC, or electrical. There is such a demand for these skillsets right now and it will be even greater in the future. Hopefully more people will see and understand this or we’re in for a rude awakening. Thankfully we live in a rural area with a fantastic ag program amongst other CTE instruction that our kids can learn the skill sets to be productive and successful adults. With or without that college degree. Yes I have one and yes I’m glad I chose the path I did. But it’s not the only way and our kids shouldn’t be ashamed to get their hands dirty. I’m grateful dad let me figure it out on my own because I’m sure proud to be his son and proud to be called a farmer now.
The principal looked at my muddy boots and actually apologized to the students for my "messy appearance." He didn’t know I was about to change one boy’s life forever.
My name is Joseph. I’m 68 years old, and I’ve been fighting the hard Iowa clay since before I could legally drive.
I don’t have a LinkedIn profile. I don’t have a retirement fund managed by a guy in a skyscraper. I have 400 acres, a third-generation mortgage, and hands that haven't been truly clean since 1974.
For fifty years, I’ve pulled calves in freezing sleet while the rest of the world slept under down comforters. I’ve bet my entire livelihood on the weather, praying for rain while watching my corn turn into brown paper under a scorching sun.
But apparently, that wasn’t "professional" enough for Career Day.
Last month, my granddaughter, Maya, begged me to come to her high school. I tried to say no. I knew the lineup.
And sure enough, when I walked into that auditorium, I stuck out like a sore thumb.
To my left was a corporate attorney in a suit that cost more than my first pickup truck. To my right, a software developer talking about "optimizing synergy" and working from coffee shops.
The students sat there, eyes glazed over, terrified about their SAT scores and drowning in pressure to get into colleges they couldn't afford.
When the guidance counselor introduced me, he gave a tight, embarrassed smile. "And finally... this is Joseph. He works in... agriculture."
He made it sound like a disease.
I walked to the microphone. I didn’t have a PowerPoint. I just held up my hands. They’re thick, scarred, and stained with grease that no amount of soap will ever scrub out.
"I’ve never sat in a lecture hall," I told them, my voice raspy. "I don’t know what 'synergy' is. But I know that when the grocery store shelves go empty, you can’t eat a diploma."
The room went dead silent.
"You are being told that if you don't go to university, you've failed," I continued, looking at the rows of teenagers. "But let me tell you something. This country doesn't run on emails. It runs on the backs of people who aren't afraid to sweat."
I pointed to the attorney. "He creates paperwork."
I pointed to myself. "I create food. And when a blizzard hits and the supply trucks stop running, paperwork won't keep your children fed. My corn will."
I saw the teachers shifting uncomfortably. I didn't care.
"There is dignity in being tired at the end of the day," I said. "There is freedom in fixing your own tractor. And there is peace in knowing that you don't owe a bank $100,000 just for the permission to get a job."
When the bell rang, most of the kids rushed out, back to their phones. But one boy stayed behind.
He was skinny, wearing a hoodie pulled up to his chin. He looked at the floor, kicking his sneaker against the gym mat.
"My dad's a mechanic," he mumbled, refusing to look at me. "He comes home smelling like gas every day. My teachers tell me I’m smart enough to 'escape' that life. They say I should be an architect so I don't end up like him."
My heart broke right there in that gymnasium.
I walked off the stage and put a hand on his shoulder. He flinched, then looked up.
"Son," I said, "Let me ask you something. When an ambulance breaks down on the highway with a dying patient inside, who saves the day? Is it the architect?"
He shook his head slowly. "No."
"It's your dad," I said firmly. "Your dad keeps this world moving. He is the difference between life and death on that highway. Don't you ever let anyone tell you his life is something to escape. It’s something to honor."
The boy’s eyes welled up. He wiped them quickly with his sleeve, nodded once, and walked away. He stood a little taller.
I went back to the farm and didn’t think much of it. I just went back to the harvest, back to the solitude of the cab.
But yesterday, I was at the hardware store buying hydraulic fluid. A woman came rushing down the aisle and grabbed my arm.
It was the boy’s mother.
"You’re the farmer, aren't you?" she asked, her voice shaking.
I braced myself for a complaint. Maybe I’d been too harsh.
Instead, she started crying.
"My son has been ashamed of his father for years," she said, tears streaming down her face. "He wouldn't even let his dad pick him up from school because of the old work truck. But since that assembly... he’s been in the garage every single night."
She took a breath. "He told his dad yesterday, 'Teach me how the engine works.' It’s the first time I’ve seen my husband look proud in a decade."
We stood there in the aisle, surrounded by tools and nuts and bolts, and I got choked up too.
We have made a terrible mistake in this country.
We have convinced a generation that working with your hands is a consolation prize. We have shamed the plumbers, the electricians, the farmers, and the mechanics into silence, making them feel small so that universities can sell more degrees.
But here is the hard truth: You can have all the CEOs and influencers you want. But if nobody plants the seed, if nobody welds the pipe, if nobody turns the wrench... civilization collapses in about three days.
So, to every young person reading this who loves to build, fix, grow, or create:
We need you.
Don't let them talk you into a life of debt you don't want. There is honor in the dirt. There is glory in the grease.
And one day, when the world breaks down, the people in the suits will be looking for you to save them.
Do you agree that we need to bring back respect for trade skills and blue-collar work? Drop a "YES" below if you support the men and women who keep this country running.
