The Butterfly Garden

03/02/2026

'Because I know that I do not know, I am guided to find my own way.'

02/01/2026

I’ve spent too much time wasting my energy on the people, places and things that didn’t deserve it.
Maybe I thought those things would make me happy or that I’d find something I was missing.
What I’ve realized that I need to stop being busy doing the things that just distract me from life and start actually living life.
I’m choosing today to focus on the parts of my life that make me happy.
Simple things of substance that bring me joy.
I’ve overlooked all of those for too long thinking I need to subscribe to all the people saying all the nonsense out there.
I’m going back to the basics.
My heart and soul need that.
I need that.
All the little things that I thought didn’t matter really do matter- so very much.
The sunlight on my face and the wind blowing through my hair.
No more listening to the negativity of the world and denying myself what makes me happy.
I’m chasing happiness, loving my life and living in the beautiful moments, all around me.
I’m not going to let the little voices of insecurity pop up in my head and change how I feel about myself.
This is my story and I’m changing the narrative of my life into one that I’m proud of, that’s worth living and makes me happy.
I don’t have to change everything overnight.
Small acts with great love can slowly transform my life into exactly what I want it to be.
I’ll still make mistakes, have bad hair days and feel like crying at times, but that’s just part of it.
I’m human and I’m always going to have good days and bad, ups and downs..
But I choose what I want to define me and how I live my life…
So, I’m choosing happiness.
Every day won’t be great, but there’s something great in every day.
It’s up to me to find it.
It’s time I showed the world just how amazing and magical that I am-
one smile, one laugh and one incredible moment at a time.
I’ll never be perfect or flawless, but with some hard work and love in my heart, I can be the most important thing of all:
Happy.
Seems like a pretty great place to start, if you ask me.
|ravenwolf

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03/06/2025

Feeling this right now...

03/06/2025

Celebrating my 4th year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

02/19/2025

01/26/2025

The scars of your past may have taught you to cling to those who dim your light, fearing the darkness of being alone. But as you heal, like the moon finding her fullness after a long eclipse, you understand that the real fear lies not in losing others, but in losing the essence of who you are. You are the wildflower that grows fiercely, untamed by the winds of others’ expectations. Protect your roots, nurture your own soil, and never let anyone make you forget the power you hold within.🐢

True healing begins with the bravery to prioritize yourself, refusing to let the fear of losing others dictate your worth. The real question is: will you continue to betray your own peace to keep others comfortable, or will you rise fiercely and embrace the untamed freedom of living authentically?

Tara Isis Gerris

01/04/2025

Think about this as you walk into 2025. 

You work 12 hours a day: You have no life.
You work 6 hours: You will have nothing in life.
You don't work: you're wasting your time.
Living with your parents: get out and get a life.
You live in a rental property: why are you wasting your money?
You have your own house: can't you do more repairs?
You're an entrepreneur: you are taking advantage of others.
You are an employee: you are letting them take advantage of you.
You have a new car: how ridiculous, buy a house.
You don't have a car: save your money and buy a car.
You go on vacation: they spend way too much money.
You don't go on vacation: They never get out and for anything.
Posted a photo: she likes to get attention.
You will not participate in social media: she's probably hiding stuff.
You're single: no one wants them.
You're in a relationship: they probably won't last.
Gained weight: he's unhealthy and needs to lose weight.
He lost weight: he looks unhealthy and needs to gain weight.
You have a tattoo: You’re a sinner.
You have no tattoo: You're no fun
Critical people will always have something to talk about and criticize.
Therefore, you just do you, who cares what people say about you.

12/29/2024

Let’s make 2025 a year of healing.

09/20/2024

Make it a great day.

04/19/2024

I say go out and be yourself, no one else can do tact.

01/11/2024

I’ve spent my whole telling myself I was capable of great things and able to do anything I set my mind to.
The only problem is that I’ve always put off accomplishing what I wanted.
Something always came up, the time was never right and it seemed life got in the way every time.
Well, I’m not okay with that any more.
I’m lighting the fire under my passion and turning the page in that chapter-
Actually no, I’m starting a whole new book.
No more “maybe tomorrow” or “if only” and forget “when the time is right.”
I’ve made those excuses all my life and it’s never done me a bit of good.
So, I’m flipping the script and changing the chapters.
I’m done with doing things the way I’ve always done and expecting my life to be any different.
This is a new day, a new direction and a new choice..
To start being true to myself, listening to my heart and finally start doing instead of just wanting.
I can’t expect anything to change if I don’t change how I approach my life.
I’m taking the chances, I’m stepping out, speaking up and leaving my comfort zone behind.
Sure, it scares me to death but then, if it didn’t, then I would be doing it all wrong.
If I do what I’ve always done then I’ll get what I’ve always had.
No more.
I’m capable of more, I deserve more and now for the first time, I’m going after it.
I won’t look back with regret wishing I had done whatever it took to be happy, find purpose and change my life.
Sometimes, it’s the little things in little ways that edge me closer to where I want to be.
Put enough of those little steps together and they’ll add up to be one big step.
This is my time to start doing instead of wishing I had.
One small step, one day, one dream at a time,
I’ll get there..
And it all starts with me.
It always has.
|ravenwolf

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