09/16/2026
James should really start a series called “Crap that breaks during second cutting hay.”. Tonight I got home around 6:30 after working, an appointment, and a recruiting event. I drive by our big field on 44 and see James at the bottom with one wind row left. In my mind I think “Awesome, he’s almost done!”.
I get home, check on Emmett who has managed to do his homework, practice his saxophone, and feed himself dinner and not burn the house down (miracles do exist!). I pickup our living room some, and head into the kitchen to do dishes. As I’m doing said dishes, I see a friend of ours slow down, look around the farm, and drive on. I think nothing of it, because friends know the tell-tale signs of where James is based on vehicles and machines out.
30 minutes go by. And I start thinking. One wind row does not take thirty minutes. Crap. That friend that drove by? It’s the friend that can fix literally everything. Double Crap. An hour goes by. Now I know we’ve got problems. So out I go to start in on night chores - when things break, the absolute best way to help is stay out of the way and get every chore you can do done before James gets back.
This photo? Those are James’ headlights coming up the road tonight - he still has to get two wagons into the barn in the dark now, and finish the jobs I just couldn’t get to because I’ve got to put Emmett down. The header on the baler? Needs to be completely taken out (if you don’t speak machinery like I used to, it’s a big job). That friend? He was looking for James because he needed an extra pair of eyes to make sure his diagnosis was correct.
When James got off that tractor tonight, he could have been mad, and I wouldn’t have even blinked. Nothing about this hay season has gone smooth. But he got off that tractor and he said “Well, I guess I can’t complain, I’m almost done with second cutting, and I think I have a plan.” And that right there is why farmers are the absolute best - when things go wrong, they don’t spend their time complaining. They spend it finding a solution. ❤️