05/28/2026
A huge part of why I can do this job happens right here.
Twice a month I meet with a very dear friend of mine for 90 minutes to 2 hours.
Outside of Jesus and my husband, I am the most open and vulnerable with her. She helps my body to rest and heal, and my body has carried decades of weight long before I ever started butchering.
In her room of facts and faith, the humble reality of my humanity and the hope of my eternity meet in peace.
My heart, mind, spirit and body are able and willing listen to each other and they find a place of unity and rest in the Truth and love of Jesus.
I am the “weaker vessel” (1 Peter 3:7) and that’s ok, because I am also strong (Proverbs 31:17).
I cannot do everything, and that’s okay because God never asked me to.
I make mistakes, and that’s also okay because there’s another day to make it right, and God’s grace is sufficient.
To do this job without becoming hard-hearted or breaking down after five years requires allowing your body, heart, mind and spirit to face and accept Truth, to love and be loved, and to rest.
Perhaps that’s just as true for every job.
I know I couldn’t do mine without this place and this friend to help me. I let go here, I accept reality and limitations here, and rest here because everything about it is safe and holds no expectations.
What if we could all provide and be provided such a place? How would our lives look different?