In the Waiting Doula Services LLC

In the Waiting Doula Services LLC Bakersfield Doula, Childbirth Educator Educator, Certified Birth Worker, VBAC Certified Educator Stillbirth Support.

Cofounder of THREE MOONS DOULA COLLECTIVE (Doula Trainer) Kern County 1st Medi-Cal Doula Provider!

Pregnancy Loss Deserves Support, Too. 🤍Miscarriage and pregnancy loss can affect a person in ways that others may never ...
08/24/2026

Pregnancy Loss Deserves Support, Too. 🤍

Miscarriage and pregnancy loss can affect a person in ways that others may never see.

There may be grief.
Shock.
Anger.
Numbness.
Relief.
Confusion.
Physical discomfort.
Or a mixture of emotions that changes from one moment to the next.

There is no “right” way to experience loss.

And while so much attention is often placed on the medical care surrounding a miscarriage, there is also a person who may need someone beside them — someone to listen, sit quietly, offer reassurance, help them understand what to expect, and simply hold space without trying to fix their grief.

Many families may not realize that Medi-Cal’s doula benefit includes support related to miscarriage and pregnancy loss.

A doula can provide non-medical physical, emotional, and informational support during this incredibly tender time — including support surrounding miscarriage management or a procedure such as a D&C, within the doula’s scope of practice.

Sometimes support looks like talking.

Sometimes it looks like sitting quietly.

Sometimes it means helping someone process what just happened.

And sometimes it simply means making sure they don’t have to walk through such a vulnerable moment without support.

Pregnancy loss is still a birth experience worthy of compassion, dignity, tenderness, and care. 🤍

If you or someone you love is experiencing a pregnancy loss and has Medi-Cal, know that doula support may be available to you.

You are allowed to ask for someone to hold space for you, too.

In The Waiting Doula Services LLC

Post ceremony, it was a beautiful bone closing with the amazing student doulas Bonita Davis Bullard and Elizabeth who is...
08/24/2026

Post ceremony, it was a beautiful bone closing with the amazing student doulas Bonita Davis Bullard and Elizabeth who is not on the socials. This bone closing WAS BEAUTIFUL

I’m bringing Sobada back. 🤎🌿I stepped away from offering Sobada for a little while, but I’m ready to return to this beau...
08/23/2026

I’m bringing Sobada back. 🤎🌿

I stepped away from offering Sobada for a little while, but I’m ready to return to this beautiful practice. Moving forward, Sobada will be incorporated into my Closing of the Bones ceremonies.

I learned Sobada from Metzli Lopez of Luna Mama Services, and I carry so much gratitude for the knowledge and teachings she shared with me.

As part of this offering, I’ll also be incorporating a traditional copal massage oil brought directly from Guatemala, used intentionally during the Sobada portion of the ceremony.

Sobada + Closing of the Bones

A time to tend to the postpartum body.
A return inward after the opening of birth.
A moment to honor the womb and everything it has carried.
A space to be massaged, wrapped, held, and cared for.

As I return to offering Sobada, it is important to me to acknowledge where my teachings came from, who shared them with me, and the ancestral traditions that came before me.

With gratitude to Metzli Lopez of Luna Mama Services for sharing these teachings with me. 🤎🌿

It feels good to bring this part of my postpartum work back.

I love you sooooooo much Bonita Davis Bullard thank you for inviting me to the Cherokee Community Health Fair, everyone ...
08/22/2026

I love you sooooooo much Bonita Davis Bullard thank you for inviting me to the Cherokee Community Health Fair, everyone was so kind and said can’t wait to see you next year, so I am already invited to the community gatherings 🪶🐦‍⬛

08/16/2026

A short video of this past Saturday with my amazing sister Partera Jenny Silva love you and can’t wait to have you here in Bakersfield again! Te quiero mucho.

08/12/2026

Some careers become a lifelong calling.

At In the Waiting Doula Services LLC, Nikki Avila continues expanding her work in maternal care through doula mentorship, community trainings, and her ongoing path toward midwifery, all centered around accessibility, inclusivity, and empowering families throughout the birth journey.

📕 Lets get together and chat about telling your story! Visit our website https://mylittleguide.com/Bakersfield or call us at (559) 892-9425 to secure your spot in the 2027 Little Guide Bakersfield!

Had to introduce my friend and colleague to my new friend and homegirl. We had a great time. Raven wasn’t at the Worksho...
08/11/2026

Had to introduce my friend and colleague to my new friend and homegirl. We had a great time. Raven wasn’t at the Workshop this past Saturday so wanted them to meet.

We laughed a lot and enjoyed sushi together

08/07/2026

Baby moves in side laying position

🌿✨ TICKET GIVEAWAY — THE ANCESTRAL WAY ✨🌿We are giving away ONE FREE TICKET to join us for:The Ancestral Way with Parter...
08/06/2026

🌿✨ TICKET GIVEAWAY — THE ANCESTRAL WAY ✨🌿

We are giving away ONE FREE TICKET to join us for:

The Ancestral Way with Partera Jenny Silva

📅 Saturday, August 8, 2026
⏰ 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM
📍 Bakersfield, CA
🎟️ $65 value

Spend the morning learning alongside Partera Jenny Silva, a traditional Mexican midwife with more than 15 years of experience, as she shares ancestral postpartum traditions, ceremony, and Indigenous healing practices.

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✨ ONE winner will receive admission to the 3-hour immersion.

Winner will be announced 08/07/2026 at 12 PM

If you’ve been wanting to attend but haven’t purchased your ticket yet, this may be your opportunity. 🤎

The Ancestral Way
with Partera Jenny Silva

Hosted by In the Waiting Doula Services LLC

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930 Truxtun AveSuite 108
Bakersfield, CA
93301

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Monday 12pm - 5pm
Tuesday 5pm - 9pm
Wednesday 4pm - 9pm
Thursday 6pm - 9pm
Friday 9am - 9pm
Saturday 12pm - 2pm
Sunday 10am - 4pm

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