10/16/2026
It's hard to believe, but the top photo is what the Dahlia field looks like right now...
vs. what it will look like tomorrow.
Widespread frost 🥶 is predicted for our farm tonight.
When frost arrives, the Dahlias freeze and turn dark, slimy, mushy, and disgusting overnight. The transformation still shocks me every time.
So we're saying our last goodbyes, checking all the plants one more time to make sure everything is labeled correctly... and allowing the grief and relief to exist at the same time.
Grief that the beauty is gone.
Relief that our season is done.
Humans have the ability to feel 2 conflicting emotions at the same time.
It can feel weird, like you're being pulled in two different directions, stretched thin.
But now I don't fight it.
A few years ago, I decided my Word of the Year would be "AND".
I can feel grief AND relief at the same time.
I can feel heartbreaking joy and crushing sadness at the same time.
This is real life, living in the "and"...
Real life doesn't fit into neat, tidy boxes.
Has frost arrived for you yet? ❄️