10/18/2026
Sunday from the porch…
So many of you have come in this past week full of questions about the closing of Karefree that I thought I’d take a minute and clear up some of those.
I have no intention of selling! I am looking for someone to lease the property that will have basically the same concept in mind but can take it further than I did. I want someone that will take care of the land and use it to its full potential. I want someone that will provide your family with years of fun, farming, food and memories that will last a lifetime. I’m going to do my best to put someone in there that will take care of you like we did for so many years.
I am not closing for health or financial reasons. I’m not sick or broke. I’m just tired! I’ve tried for 14 months to do my part AND Farmer Frye’s parts of the farm and it is just too much for 1 person. I dwindled things down to what I thought I could handle and it’s still too much. It’s just time to face facts-I can’t do it all by myself nor do I want to anymore.
I wake up in a house that WE built. I walk out the door to a view and farm that WE created. I go to work at a business that WE built. I can’t get away from the WE no matter what I do or where I go. I can’t hold up his half of the WE any longer and it’s damn near impossible to find ME in the middle of all of this WE. Does that make sense? I know some of you will get it.
There are 17 years of memories on that hill. I see the strawberry field and remember the cold nights he and I spent putting row covers on the strawberries by the head lights of our trucks. I see the ice cream stand out the kitchen window and can clearly see him on the ladder building it for us. I go through the doorway to the back kitchen and I see him and my dad standing on scaffolding cussing and laughing while putting up the ceiling panels. I see all of the things we accomplished and all the plans we never got to finish. It has become a place of constant reminder of what I have lost. I already have that at home. I don’t need a second location reminding me too.
So what are my plans for the future? 🤷♀️ I don’t really have any beyond maintaining the family farm and having it provide all that it can for my family. I am fortunate enough to still have both of my parents and would love to spend more time letting them drive me crazy lol. I want to spend more time with my grandsons who are growing up way too fast. I want to be there to help those in my life that matter the most instead of just giving them what’s left or squeezing them in when it’s convenient. I want to go on a spring time vacation! (Do you know I haven’t been anywhere in 17 years during April, May and June?) I just simply want the opportunity to have a little peace in my life after all of the chaos the past few years have brought. I still have a long way to go in my grief and finding my place in the world but I will get there. Closing Karefree is my first solid step in making that happen.
A lot of you have reached out to me privately and in person about my little widow group get togethers that I had mentioned once upon a time. I’d really like to do something with that. I’ve even been approached by other local business owners who’d love to host the get togethers if I pursue this idea. So maybe that will be my calling. I’ve been approached about writing a cook book or doing a podcast of some sort with all the craziness that goes on around me. I don’t know about all of that but I’m not closing myself off to any and all possibilities. It’s just nice to know that soon I will have the freedom to find out what’s right for me.
And the final BIG question all week-Will I still be taking Thanksgiving orders? YES! It’s my last hoorah on the hill, so to speak. The menu will go up later tonight and you can place your order by messaging me or calling the market. To truly make it a HOORAH, I’m going to try a little thing and really want to make it a BIG happy good bye. So tune in later tonight for the menu post and idea that I have. Now get outside and enjoy this glorious day!!
Thanks for following along with Karen on the farm. 💋♥️