10/21/2026
There are studies out there that have studied the power of words on plants, on water as it's frozen, on all kinds of things.
Knowing that, I have been trying to change the way I talk to and about my horses. Y'all know I call Stella crazy all the time because she's a redhead and can be a dragon, but lately I've been trying to stop myself from calling her crazy. Instead, I tell her how confident she is, what a phenomenal barrel horse she is, that she could be a supreme pole horse, and she's an interstate champion.
Tonight, I looked at her and said "Stella, you can run a 13 second time on the WHO pattern." And ya know what this bu**er did? She literally took a deep breath and licked and chewed. If that doesn't tell you what the power of words and intention can do for a horse π² she literally relaxed and had a release of sorts when I told her that I believed in her.
So, this is your reminder: watch how you talk to and about your horses. It might not seem like it but they hear you and your words do make a difference.