08/30/2026
When we focus our marriage on exalting and glorifying God together, our relationship becomes a vehicle through which people can smell the aroma of Christ.
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It will be a demonstration of the gospel to the world—we will show God’s grace, His compassion, His forgiveness.
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It starts with being God-centered instead of self-centered. It’s upward and outward instead of being inward.
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To be more specific, Christian love is self-sacrificing, not self-serving love. Check out Philippians 2:1-4
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Now, is there companionship that comes along with it? Yes. Is there love and intimacy that comes into the deal? Yes, and I‘m glad for these things!
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But when we magnify the Lord together we both end up saying, “This isn‘t about us. This is about putting the gospel on display to a watching world.”
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When we truly understood that purpose, it changed everything.
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I like how Paul Tripp puts it: “We were made to live upward and outward, but most of us live inward. When we can quit living inward and start living upward and outward, life changes.”
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When our marriage can be about upward and outward, things change.
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These two unique aspects of a Christian marriage
—a different purpose and a different love—
are something we cannot manufacture by ourselves.
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They are impossible apart from the transforming grace of God in our lives.
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And when we experience this transformation, the world will notice something very different in our relationships. 💕🫶
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Enjoy your Sunday today and your spouses everyday.
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Much love 🥰💕🫶
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