08/17/2026
This past Saturday marked two weeks of living on the farm. It’s been a very busy time, which has me reflecting on time management, goals and priorities, and work capacity.
I used to think that it would get easier when we moved to the farm; we would have more time. This is true in some ways.
And yet I notice how this time and ease we got back can just as quickly be put into a new project or task and slip through our fingers again.
Eric and I are driven people - thank God! Give us extra time or bandwidth, and we'll instinctively find a way to use every bit of it. That work ethic is part of what has allowed the farm to become what it is in just two and a half short years.
I also know farmers can burn out. A couple of weeks ago, I read of a couple who, after 14 years of farming, decided they were tired and needed a change. It broke my heart.
The soil can only give so much without rest and nourishment before it becomes depleted and broken. I think people are much the same.
We cannot extract ourselves from the regenerative system we are building; therefore time and attention to regenerate ourselves deserve just as much focus and intention as we give to regenerating the soil.
Being busy and driven isn’t a problem, which is good because you don’t clock out as a farmer. In my opinion, the danger is when we become the thieves of our own time and joy, either postponing contentment until the next milestone is reached or delaying rest until a goal is fully realized.
Part of the journey, for me at least, is learning to hold the tension between having BIG goals and being content with the here and now. I don’t want to live in a way where contentment is always based on a future accomplishment, because that orientation to life ensures that contentment and peace are fleeting.
This reflection has me desiring to spend a little effort setting boundaries, being intentional about restoring ourselves, and cultivating peace in the unfinished present. And with those investments, I believe we might even build capacity to take on even more.
I feel so thankful that I get to experience this beautiful life that gives me more than I ever dreamed.
Does this resonate with you? I would love to know your thoughts or any strategies for cultivating your own regeneration and resilience as a farmer.
- Emily