Blazing Star Stables

Blazing Star Stables Blazing Star Stables is a natural horsemanship facility that offers lessons from the ground up.

There’s a lot more thought behind a riding lesson than what you can see in a photograph. ❤️🐴I saw a comment recently que...
09/05/2026

There’s a lot more thought behind a riding lesson than what you can see in a photograph. ❤️🐴

I saw a comment recently questioning why our students were riding in ba****ck pads, without stirrups, and why their leg positions didn’t look like what someone might expect to see in a traditional saddle.

So, I thought this was a great opportunity to explain why we do what we do at Blazing Star Stables.

Those ba****ck pads aren’t being used because we don’t have saddles.
And our students aren’t riding without stirrups because we don’t know how to teach proper leg position.

Quite the opposite.

They are being used intentionally and for specific teaching purposes.

At Blazing Star Stables, we teach a wide variety of riders—including children who are neurodivergent, children with different learning styles, and riders who are still developing body awareness, balance, coordination, confidence, and communication skills.

A ba****ck pad can provide a tremendous amount of useful sensory information.

It allows a rider to:

🐴 Feel the horse’s movement more directly
🐴 Develop an independent seat
🐴 Become more aware of their own body position
🐴 Learn to follow the horse’s movement rather than relying on a saddle for stability
🐴 Develop balance and core engagement
🐴 Understand where their legs and hips are in relation to the horse
🐴 Work on relaxation and body awareness
🐴 Develop confidence before adding additional equipment and complexity

And removing stirrups is also intentional.

Stirrups can become something a beginning rider depends on for stability. Before we worry about creating the “perfect” textbook leg position, we want our riders to understand where their body is, how the horse moves underneath them, and how their balance affects the horse.

Once those foundational skills are established, we can introduce or refine stirrup use and work toward a more traditional position.

And here’s something else that matters:

Every rider is different.

The “right” way to teach one child may not be the right way to teach another.

A rider who is neurodivergent may process balance, sensory input, verbal instructions, spatial awareness, or body position differently. Some riders need more tactile feedback. Some need fewer variables at once. Some need to experience something physically before the verbal explanation makes sense.

That’s not lowering the standard.

That’s adapting the teaching method so the student can actually learn.

We also have to consider the horses.

Some of our horses are incredible teachers precisely because they allow riders to learn without demanding perfection from them. We have to create an environment where both horse and rider can learn safely.

So when you see a photograph of one of our lessons, you may not see the entire lesson plan, the goals for that particular rider, the conversations happening between instructor and student, or the skills we are intentionally developing.

You are seeing one moment in a much bigger educational process.

At Blazing Star Stables, our goal isn’t to put every rider into a saddle, hand them reins, and make them look like a finished equestrian as quickly as possible.

Our goal is to build HORSE PEOPLE.

That means learning:

Groundwork.
Riding and driving.
Stable management.
Healing.
Communication.
Body awareness.
Problem solving.
Confidence.
Horsemanship.

And yes—eventually, that includes developing a proper riding position.

But proper position is a progression, not a photograph.

So if you see one of our young riders on a ba****ck pad without stirrups, know that there is a reason.

There is always a reason. ❤️🐴

We don’t teach every rider the same way.
We teach the rider in front of us.

And sometimes, the best way to teach someone to find their seat is to take the saddle—and the stirrups—out of the equation.

Why Blazing Star Stables Requires Lessons During a Horse LeaseAt Blazing Star Stables, a lease is not simply the opportu...
09/04/2026

Why Blazing Star Stables Requires Lessons During a Horse Lease

At Blazing Star Stables, a lease is not simply the opportunity to use a horse. It is an educational and horsemanship partnership.

When someone leases one of our horses, they are taking on additional responsibility for that horse’s care, handling, communication, and, when applicable, riding. Because of that, continued instruction is a requirement of our lease program.

This isn’t about controlling what someone does with a horse. It isn’t about creating unnecessary rules. And it isn’t about collecting additional lesson fees.

It’s about maintaining a standard.

1. Horses change. Riders change.

Horsemanship is never something we “finish.” A horse’s physical condition, behavior, confidence, fitness, and needs can change. A rider’s skills, habits, confidence, and physical abilities change too.

Regular instruction gives us an opportunity to recognize those changes before they become problems.

2. Leasing is different from owning.

A lease does not transfer ownership or responsibility for the long-term welfare of the horse.

The horse remains part of our program, and we have an obligation to make sure that the horse is being handled, ridden, and cared for appropriately.

3. Safety is a continuing process.

Working around horses carries inherent risk. Riding, groundwork, loading, trail riding, handling, and even routine barn activities require ongoing awareness and skill.

Regular lessons allow us to continue developing safe habits rather than assuming that once someone has learned something, they will always execute it correctly.

4. We want the horse and rider to remain a team.

A horse isn’t a piece of equipment that you simply get to “use.”

We want our horses to have consistency in communication, expectations, handling, and training.

Lessons allow us to make sure that the horse and rider are continuing to understand one another.

5. We can catch small problems before they become big ones.

Sometimes a rider doesn’t realize that a habit has developed.

Maybe the horse is becoming resistant at the mounting block. Maybe the rider’s position has changed. Maybe the horse is compensating for something. Maybe communication has become less clear.

Regular instruction gives us another set of experienced eyes.

6. Continued lessons are part of our educational philosophy.

At Blazing Star Stables, we don’t simply teach people how to sit on a horse.

Our program encompasses groundwork, riding, stable management, and healing.

Our goal is to develop knowledgeable, capable horse people—not simply people who can ride.

7. It protects the horse.

Ultimately, this is the biggest reason.

Our horses cannot choose who rides them, how they are handled, or what decisions are made about their care.

We can.

Requiring continued education is one of the ways we fulfill our responsibility to the horses entrusted to us.

And yes—even I continue taking lessons.

As the owner and instructor at Blazing Star Stables, I don’t consider myself “finished” learning either.

I still take lessons.

I seek out instruction, continuing education, clinics, and opportunities to have someone else evaluate my horsemanship because I believe that there is always another perspective, another skill to refine, and another way to become a better horsewoman.

If I expect the people who lease our horses to continue learning, I hold myself to that same standard.

That’s not hypocrisy.

That’s leadership.

I don’t ask our riders to do something I am unwilling to do myself.

There is no point in our horsemanship journey where we know everything.

The moment we believe we have nothing left to learn is often the moment we stop growing.

At Blazing Star Stables, continued learning isn’t a sign that you’re inexperienced. It’s a sign that you take your horsemanship seriously.

I still take lessons. If the owner of the barn can continue learning, so can the rest of us

09/04/2026
There isn’t always a clear answer.Sometimes there isn’t a crisis.Sometimes there isn’t a dramatic moment that tells you,...
09/04/2026

There isn’t always a clear answer.

Sometimes there isn’t a crisis.

Sometimes there isn’t a dramatic moment that tells you, “Today is the day.”

Sometimes it’s a series of little things.

And sometimes the hardest part isn’t knowing what you think should happen.

It’s trusting yourself enough to make the decision.

The Final Walk was written to help horse owners think through those decisions BEFORE they’re standing in the middle of a crisis.

🐴 Read it now. Keep it for later.

👉

The Final Walk

Well this didn’t disappoint!!!! Do yours and post in comments!!! Using what you know about me—my personality, humor, int...
09/01/2026

Well this didn’t disappoint!!!! Do yours and post in comments!!!

Using what you know about me—my personality, humor, interests, values, quirks, boundaries, strengths and overall energy—imagine I owned an OLD-WORLD FANTASY TAVERN. Create a detailed 1:1 cinematic image showing what MY tavern would actually be like.

Do NOT give everyone the same tavern. Choose the tavern’s style and setting specifically for me: medieval, Viking, woodland, witchy, seaside, mountain, adventurer, cozy roadside inn, rowdy alehouse, mysterious fantasy tavern, etc. Invent a catchy original tavern name based on me and display it prominently at the top with a short tagline.

Place me naturally in the scene as the tavern keeper/owner, using my reference photo if provided. Preserve my recognizable face, age, hair and body proportions. Change my clothing, jewelry and accessories completely to fit my unique tavern and setting.

Fill the tavern with personality-based details. Include naturally placed readable signs/boards showing:

* HOUSE SPECIALTY — uniquely named signature drink and food inspired by me
* TAVERN RULES — 3–5 funny or meaningful rules matching me
* TONIGHT’S ENTERTAINMENT — chosen specifically for me
* WE WELCOME / WE DON’T SERVE — humorous choices based on my personality

Choose the patrons who would frequent MY tavern—travelers, rogues, witches, hunters, warriors, bards, villagers, pirates, adventurers, etc.—based on me. Add one resident animal or mythical creature that represents me.

Make the tavern feel alive and lived-in with food, mugs, timber, fireplaces and period-appropriate objects. Keep it detailed but organized, not cluttered.

Use bright, warm cinematic tavern lighting with glowing lanterns, candles, fireplace light and soft ambient illumination. DO NOT make the image dark, shadowy or muddy. The person, patrons, signs, food, animals and background details must be clearly visible.

Hide exactly ONE small old-fashioned lantern naturally somewhere in the scene as a subtle Easter egg. Do not label or explain it.

The finished image should feel like stepping into MY tavern, where every choice tells you something about who I am.

🐴 THE BOOK YOU HOPE YOU NEVER NEED.If you have a horse, there is a conversation you probably don’t want to have.“Is it t...
08/30/2026

🐴 THE BOOK YOU HOPE YOU NEVER NEED.

If you have a horse, there is a conversation you probably don’t want to have.

“Is it time?”

We spend years learning how to feed our horses, care for them, ride them, treat their injuries, manage their feet and keep them healthy.

But very few of us learn how to prepare for the day when loving our horse means making the hardest decision of all.

That’s why I wrote The Final Walk.

Not because saying goodbye is easy.

Because being prepared can make an impossible day a little less overwhelming.

❤️ For the horse you’ve loved for years.
❤️ For the horse you’re caring for today.
❤️ For the horse you’ll someday have to say goodbye to.

The Final Walk is available on Amazon.

👉 https://a.co/d/06laxfDB

Save this post. Share it with a horse person you love.

You may not need this book today.

But someday, you might be very glad you have it.

The Final Walk

08/29/2026
08/29/2026

Hmmmmm need some more Fjords

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185 Academy Road
East Monmouth, ME
04259

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm
Saturday 9am - 5pm
Sunday 9am - 5pm

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(207) 441-5071

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