05/13/2026
Yesterday was one of the hardest days we’ve had on the farm. We had a lot of loss and it is my fault. You see we have 2 dogs that don’t come around the farm animals. I knew they would go after all the birds so we have worked very hard to keep them away from the farm animals. Well yesterday one busted out of the yard and got into the field where the other animals are. Chickens, all our ducks (except one girl who managed to hide) and my daughter’s rabbit for 4H. They got one of the goats also but he is doing fine and was just in a bit of shock. That much loss hurts and is a lot to take in, especially for children.
That’s one of the hardest parts of having a farm that nobody really prepares you for… is the loss.
People love the cozy parts of farm life:
The baby animals.
The fresh eggs.
The sunsets and the slow mornings.
But there’s another side to it too.
Animals get sick.
Predators break through fences.
Accidents happen.
Sometimes you do absolutely everything right… and you still lose them anyway.
And it hurts.
You carry the responsibility of every life in your care, so when something happens, it’s hard not to replay every decision in your head wondering what you could have done differently.
Farm life teaches you very quickly that nature can be both beautiful and brutal at the same time.
But it also teaches resilience.
You learn to get back up after heartbreak because the rest of the animals still need you.
The chores still have to get done.
The water buckets still need filled.
The babies still need fed.
You grieve, and then you keep going.
That doesn’t mean you care less.
Honestly, I think it means you care more.
Because every loss reminds you just how much love, work, and responsibility goes into this life.
Farming and homesteading aren’t about perfection.
They’re about showing up anyway — through the chaos, the setbacks, the heartbreak, and the joy.
And if you’ve lost animals too:
You’re not failing.
You’re just living the very real side of this life that most people don’t talk about enough.