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This weekend I dusted off a skill I haven’t touched in years
 and canned strawberry jam. Life happens, and that’s okay —...
09/30/2026

This weekend I dusted off a skill I haven’t touched in years
 and canned strawberry jam. Life happens, and that’s okay — I’ve just been wanting to get back to this for a while.

Started back with something easy and STILL messed it up — added the sugar and pectin out of order. Ended up being fine anyway.

It felt GLORIOUS. Capable. And now my son asks for “mommy made jam” every single day.

You probably have one too — something you used to know how to do, sitting on a mental shelf. Nobody can downsize a skill. Nobody can take away something you know how to do with your own hands.

09/23/2026

I grew up in a farm community. “Support local” wasn’t a philosophy there — it was just what you did, because the person selling you tomatoes was someone you actually knew. I didn’t understand why it mattered. I just did it, the way you do things that are second nature and never examined.

Then I left. And for the first time, supporting local wasn’t automatic anymore — it took actually deciding to. Which meant I finally had to sit with the question I’d never really asked: why did this matter in the first place?

The answer turned out to be bigger than I expected. It wasn’t just about the food itself — though that’s real, knowing your source matters for your health, for the long run, not just this week. It was about the community that disappears when you stop knowing where anything comes from. It was about what I actually believe, ethically, once I thought about it instead of just inheriting it. It’s more than voting with your dollar. It’s remembering that there’s a person on the other end of what you’re eating, and that used to just be obvious, and somewhere along the way, for most of us, it stopped being.

So if I care this much about where food comes from now, it’s not because I discovered something new. It’s because I finally understood something I grew up inside of without ever asking why.

Shoutout to McHenry County — the place that gave me the habit long before I understood the reason.

09/19/2026

I used to throw this straight in the trash. Bones from a roast chicken, the ends of an onion, carrot peels — scrap, waste, done.

Now there’s a bag in my freezer that fills up slowly, and when it’s full, it becomes something that would’ve cost me eight dollars a carton at the store. Except I already paid for it, back when it was still dinner.

You think buying it is easier. But is it? Making broth is mostly a set-it-and-forget-it process — bones and scraps you already have, a pot, a few hours you’re not actually spending on anything. Buying it means realizing you’re out, mid-recipe, and now you’re in the car for a grocery run you weren’t planning on. Convenience isn’t actually the shortcut it markets itself as — it just moves the effort to a moment that feels more annoying, and calls that “easier.”

And that trade costs more than time. Store-bought means someone else decided what’s in it, you’re paying retail for something that was already yours once, and you never build the muscle of knowing you can make it yourself. Convenience wins by making that trade invisible — you don’t feel like you’re losing money, control, or capability. You just feel like you avoided a chore.

There’s something almost embarrassing about how simple the alternative is. No skill, no plan — just don’t throw the thing away, and let a pot do the rest. And somehow that one small refusal buys back all three: money, knowledge, the plain fact that you did it yourself.

I think about how much we let convenience decide for us — not just here, everywhere — because the cost of that decision doesn’t show up until you stop and count it. This is proof the payoff was there the whole time. We just had to stop throwing it out.

These are ideas I want my son to grow up believing are just
 how life works. Living it, saying it out loud - and funny e...
08/31/2026

These are ideas I want my son to grow up believing are just
 how life works. Living it, saying it out loud - and funny enough it stops sounding radical.

Yes. That’s the point.

08/25/2026

Here’s what’s sitting with me on top of that. Earlier this year, a shipment from an Argentine plant was turned away by another country after testing found a banned antibiotic — one linked to serious blood disorders, with no safe exposure level established. That’s one documented incident, not a claim about every shipment coming in. But it’s exactly the kind of thing that shows up when a country doesn’t have to make its story known to you — you just get what’s cheapest, and you find out what was in it after the fact, if you find out at all.

That’s the actual case for knowing your source. Not fear. Just the plain fact that when you know the farm, the practices, the person — you’re not hoping the label told you the truth. You already know it.

That’s part of why I’m putting money toward restocking our freezer with local beef sooner than I’d planned. Not because I think one shipment ruins anything — because when I already know where it came from, I don’t have to wonder.

This is a lot of why I care about knowing your food and knowing the people who grow it. That’s the community I’m trying to build here — people who’d rather know than guess.

You can import food. You can’t import food security.

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