10/12/2026
Getting a horse out on the trail alone for the first time can sometimes be a challenge. Some don't care at all, and will walk out alone from the start, while others get their confidence from what is familiar, and struggle when they venture out alone. Part of learning to trail ride is being able to do so without the help of another horse, and it is a big part of what we do here.
For our first bigger ride alone, I prefer to lead them out and ride back. I have a few reasons why I do this, and yes, one of them is because I'm too old to push them through stuff, and have found easier and safer (and I'd like to think smarter) ways to build their confidence. Leading them out helps me check in with them. I can slow or quicken my pace or stop to see if they are paying attention to me enough to not need pressure on the lead rope. If they are distracted, I can practice stopping and backing up if they walk past me a few times to help get their mind back to me.
I don't just hop on when I get to a certain place. Depending on where we walk to, I might do a little session of ground work, or find a stump and work on asking them to side up to it so I can mount. This might sound so simple, but it often takes several minutes for them to settle and pay attention enough to me to respond to the cues they have been doing well up at the barn. I have to stay patient and calm and help them work through a lot of big feelings as they start to understand that even in their nervousness, they need to do what I ask. Then as they do this familiar thing, they start to settle and relax. I ask them to do this until they stand calmly for me to mount, which for some horses takes quite a while.
After we do this, we can start our journey back to the barn, and while the stuff we go by might be scary, we don't have the hurdle of also going away from things. Basically I just try to take a few of the scary things away so they can grow in confidence. I might need to do this once or twice before they will very easily ride away from the barn without a big fight.
Sometimes a little prep work makes a huge difference♥️