11/20/2025
It’s birthday this weekend! I’m certain he’s forgotten (again) 😜
If you would’ve told either of us five years ago that we’d end up here — building a life together, raising kids side by side, and running a tiny-but-mighty apiary — we probably would’ve laughed. None of this was in the plan.
Not the bees.
Not this late-in-life love.
Not the way our stories would collide.
Nick and I didn’t meet in the middle of some perfect chapter. We came to each other in real life — full schedules, full responsibilities, full histories. I wasn’t a 20-year-old with a blank slate. I was a 32 yr old mom, a woman rebuilding, someone who had already decided her priority was her kids. Dating wasn’t on my radar. Honestly, neither was marriage.
Then (the irony)
We had both had so many bad dates. So we really didn’t see each other coming, and we really hadn’t made a room in our lives for another person. But one day turned into a weekend which turned into every week moment I had available.
We had hard conversations. Adult mistakes. Complications on both sides. And instead of walking away, we kept choosing to sit down, talk again, try again.
That’s the thing about real love — it doesn’t demand perfection. It asks for participation.
And the bees… the bees feel the same way.
Beekeeping wasn’t in our plan either. It was a “maybe someday” hobby that turned into something grounding and healing. For what I’m quickly finding the beekeeping community is these bees are so easy to become obsessed over! Something that unexpectedly anchored us to the land, to our community, and to each other. Working with honey teaches you that life doesn’t always move in straight lines — it asks for patience, trust, adaptability.
Kind of like marriage.
Kind of like us.
So somewhere between later-in-life love and late-summer honey harvests, I stopped holding on to the idea that I know what comes next. Because the best things that have ever happened to me started with the unexpected — Nick, our family, and now these bees who somehow became part of our story too.
The adventures we’re having are always the ones you never see coming. Forever in a day. 💕