08/26/2026
It feels strange to grieve someone I never knew. And yet, today, so many of us are.
The outpouring of love has been almost unimaginable. Dolly Parton touched so many lives, including those of us who never had the privilege of meeting her. Her legacy of generosity, humor, and being unapologetically herself will live on far beyond her lifetime.
I could never compare this sadness to the deeply personal grief of losing someone we actually know and love—the kind of loss so many of us carry. But maybe there is something beautiful about grieving a public figure like Dolly together. For a moment, we have permission to feel loss out loud—not just for her, but perhaps for all the people we’ve loved and lost along the way. It gives us a shared moment to reflect on what they meant to us, what they taught us, and what pieces of them we choose to carry forward.
After any loss, I think about those pieces—the qualities I want to keep alive in the way I live. From Dolly, I’ll take with me her generosity, determination, belief in women, willingness to dream ridiculously big, and most importantly, the courage to be entirely yourself.
As I began my farm journey, Dolly became a beacon of empowerment for me. She built something entirely her own. She was feminine and formidable, generous and ambitious, glamorous and hardworking—and never seemed to believe she had to diminish one part of herself to be taken seriously in another.
Many of you have celebrated her with me during our Dolly Days at the farm, and we will keep celebrating her here. 🌸
Today has shown me how clearly the people in my life know what I love. Messages from my friends and family started pouring in because they associate me with Dolly. It made me realize I wear my passions pretty openly.
I’m proud of that.
I never want to become too guarded or afraid of what people think to love the things I love. That fearlessness is something I’ll hold onto in her honor.
As Dolly said, “Find out who you are and do it on purpose.”
I intend to.
We lost an American saint, but heaven gained a rhinestone-studded angel. Cheers to her big hair, big dreams, and an even bigger heart. Love you Dolly 🌸🩷