08/25/2026
Single mom advice after two poolside frosés 🍓🍷
Some of this I learned the hard way, some I’m still learning, and some I wish someone had told me years ago 💕
There is no perfect way to do this. No perfect family structure, financial situation, village, career, relationship status or version of motherhood.
But I’ve learned to build the life in front of me instead of waiting for it to look different first.
Take the trip. Find the hobby. Go to dinner alone. Ask for help. Build your village. Save your money AND spend it on experiences making memories. Be a mom — but don’t forget to be a whole person too!
And maybe most importantly: what works for your family is allowed to look completely different from what works for someone else’s 👏🏼👏🏼
Which one would you add?!🍓