05/12/2026
What if some of life’s hardest seasons also hold some of its most meaningful lessons?
In Episode 159 of heCast, Mike Chisholm sits down with Mark Steven Porro for an honest, heartfelt, and unexpectedly funny conversation about caregiving, aging, family, grief, dignity, and finding joy in hard seasons. Mark Steven Porro is an award-winning designer, writer, director, actor, and the author of A Cup of Tea on the Commode, a memoir about caring for his mother in the final years of her life.
In this episode, Mark shares what it was like to step away from the usual chase of life and fully enter the world of caregiving — navigating the emotional highs and lows, the hard moments, the absurd moments, and the surprising grace that can show up when you are present for someone you love. This episode explores the emotional reality of caring for an aging parent, the role of humor in preserving dignity, the lessons that service teaches us, and why showing up in difficult seasons can change us in ways we never expected.
In this episode, we talk about:
• Caregiving and family responsibility
• Aging and end-of-life realities
• Grief, love, and dignity
• Humor in hard seasons
• Purpose and perspective
• Showing up for the people we love
• Finding joy in the middle of difficulty
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