01/01/2026
January 1, 2026, A note to self;
I sit here with a feeling of renewal on this 1st day of the year, yet I also have the feeling of sorrow and a certain ownership of my past. The two feelings seem to have this same battle, over, and over again every year in both my mind and heart, transcending my feelings to totally different paths. I have contemplated changing my life all together, but the memories of my past seem to get in my way. Excitement is what drives me, but I love the comfy feeling of what is familiar. I seem to be at a crossroad with no idea where to start or proceed. I am stuck in the entrapment of my own mind. Words like where, how, what, and why run a marathon in my head. Where should I go, what should I do? Sound familiar?
January 1st has a way with playing with all our minds. Renewal is always our motivation to be somebody yet the rest of the mind cannot figure how to keep up with it all. As easy as change seems today, tomorrow always gets in your way. What are we missing? Why can’t we seem to march forward? These are great thoughts, but I can’t seem to get them all accomplished today as my conscience seems to be pushing me to. Slow and steady always wins the race, if you don’t quit too early.
I’m sure everyone has had these same thoughts sometime in life on this 1st day of a new year. They are as normal as light of day and dark of night. What are we missing? Meaning and fulfillment might be two words missing from our thoughts. These are the words that get us out of bed every day. When we lose them from our mind, we feel the way we do on this day. Today is just another day in your life, just like yesterday and the days before that. You don’t have to lose yesterday or the years before, you just need to keep going, doing the things that make you smile and give your life meaning. I always remember my cousin Richard saying, "the one thing that burns my ass is a fire about waist high." That is exactly where you need to start, that fire that gets you charging forward. The exercise, the diets, and all the resolutions are empty without all of that meaning behind what matters to you.
Start today and build that puzzle to a new and better you! That’s the fun about our life, we get to decide on our do-overs! If you are going to do anything new this year, then live by the promises and commitments that you make. Get rid of all excuses and just commit. That right there will do more for you and your success than anything else that you ever do. Show the world who and what you are made of. Midnight last night yelled, “That’s a wrap 2025!” Let the year go! Like Bill Belichick always said, “We’re on to next year!”
So, what is it that gives you meaning and fulfillment? Answer those questions and you will be well on your way. It's really that simple. Happy New Year and Happy Thursday everyone!
Smile, you are blessed with another day to make it happen. Watch out 2026, here I come!! I’m coming to take a big bite out of your arse!!! Start Life Now……