10/09/2025
heyyyy y’all! 🥳
please take the time to read this!
exciting announcement 🌟🌟🌟
i want to thank each and every one of you personally for the support that i’ve gotten in the last year and especially the last couple months. but let’s shift gears for just a moment, full transparency. may be triggering. over the last year and a half, i’ve been struggling severely with the reality of being 1 in 4, and that i truly did lose my child. the loss was very traumatic, and it’s been more difficult with parts missing. not knowing what happened to you in a medical setting is terrifying. especially when you have given birth, with no evidence of that. becoming a mother that way is heartbreaking. your body felt it, but your eyes don’t see it. grieving a future you will never know, & someone you never got to hold is so hard. postpartum with no baby is the most difficult thing i have ever endured in my life.
since may, the Lord has called me into a season of isolation and stillness for pruning, healthy grievance, and rest. it’s been a very trying but beautiful time in life, and i learned that joy and grief can coexist. when things get dark, we can always hold onto the fact that the Son will shine again.
in this, i realized all i want is to extend a hand to people in the same way the Lord extended His for me. and i want a way to remember my daughter, for her memory to impact people in ways her voice cannot. it was here that my ministry was born, with a mission.
we are now dedicated to bringing people together through small but meaningful treats, honoring the memory of our daughter, Liliana — who was called home at 13 weeks.
(new mission + vision statements, as well as our core values are on the following slides.)
i want to showcase how truly beautiful things can be, even though they last only a moment. the beauty of cake decorating, and desserts is the wonder of “how can i take a bite out of something this beautiful!?”! truly beautiful things have multiple functions, just like how God created us.
i thank you for your patience with me, and i am so excited to have you on this journey with me. i am eagerly anticipating what the Lord will do with this, placed in His hands. may all feel His love through what we create together, and i fulfill the commission through being His hands and feet — from my cottage kitchen, to the nations. though i must wait on my own children, i can take care of the Lord’s. 🫂
thank you. seriously.
and thank God for keeping me.
this is just the beginning, and He will receive all the glory.
with gratitude + love,
Lex🤎
mommy & daddy love you forever, Lily 🤍