09/21/2025
When Mark and I first met and I learned he was the drummer for Bury Your Dead, I didn't quite understand what that meant. And then he introduced me to his music, and honestly, I still didn't understand. I respected it and admired the adventures it awarded him. I was awed by his ability, but beyond that, I didn't get it. It was a little too aggressive for my tender sensibilities. But... I get it now. Last night, I had the privilege to sit on stage and watch this band end it's 24 year run. It was crowded with mommas, wives, kiddos, friends and former band mates, all of us cheering them on. The music was loud and charged, and the fans were rabid in the best possible way. But as I watched in the hours leading up to the end, that's when I finally saw the bigger picture. I got to meet all these guys, their wives and families, friends and fans, and they were ALL AMAZING people. These guys were more than band mates. They were brothers, bonded by the shared experience of having their wildest dreams come true. Their families, friends and fans were the backbone that gave them all the courage, permission and encouragement to go out into the world and grab it by the balls. And their gratitude for ALL of it was palpable. They were humble. They were kind. They were infectious. I've always been a fan of Mark, but maybe not entirely so of his music. That all changed last night when I got to experience just a little of what he has for all these years. It was about the people all along. The music is incidental . These guys were what brought it to life and made everyone that showed up there last night, and all those other nights over the last 24 years feel alive. It's a special kind of magic they possess. Most of us only get the chance to admire it, but they LIVED it. What an adventure! I'm so proud of Mark and his band of brothers for what they've accomplished. They've changed lives by touching them with words and chords and shared experiences. They gave their blood, sweat and tears to chase down dreams. If that ain't a life well lived, I don't know what is. What a way to bring down the curtain. I may be late to the party, but I am a fan! ❤️