06/17/2026
Thank you everyone who has reached out. My kids dad passed away unexpectedly today.
Nothing will ever prepare you to have to tell your kids that their dad has passed away. This is my second time at this and it’s not any easier.
We may not have had the best relationship when we were together but the last few years I was so thankful that we could finally get along not just with me but also with Carlos. I may not agree with your lifestyle and the choices you made but you lived the life you wanted and did not care what anyone thought. I wish had a tad of that unapologetic attitude!
Even though I got irritated with your late night calls or texts and I know you know I was half asleep, I will miss them. I know you felt like you could talk to me about anything and everything, even things I didn’t want to hear about.
I have a lot of mixed emotions right now nonetheless it hurts me the most to see our kids hurting. You may not feel like you were a good dad but they always will love you and they will miss you so much. Rest easy Chad.