05/22/2018
A thought on meditation
This time of year is hectic for most of us: the student taking final exams and hurriedly finishing final coursework; the parent rushing around preparing for end-of-school activities and finalizing summer camps and vacations; planning Memorial Day vacations, cookouts, and get-togethers. Rushing to get it all done seems to be the story of most people I know these last few days. And even just a few minutes a day of meditation can be more beneficial to your well-being than you know. Even if you’ve never meditated before, or you think you don’t have the time, just start off with a few minutes a day. It can be the beginning of the day, the end, at lunchtime, an afternoon break – whenever you can squeeze 5 minutes in your day. Don’t let worrying about meditating the “correct” way stop you from starting.
Let’s start our 5-minute meditation:
First, find a calm, comfortable, safe place. A quiet place would be best, but in lieu of quiet, find a place that is calm for you.
Closing your eyes, breathe deeply and slowly. Concentrating on slowly inhaling, letting your breath linger for just a moment in your lungs, then slowly exhaling.
Don’t worry if thoughts come into your mind while you are meditating. Just let them gently pass through your mind without letting them linger. Imagine sitting on the edge of a quiet stream. Envision that those intrusive thoughts are leaves floating on the water, quietly passing in front of you before they peacefully flow downstream before they disappear from sight.
Mentally scan your body, taking note of the different parts of your body as you go, starting from the top: Your head, your neck, your shoulders, arms, abdomen, etc. Are they tense? Relaxed? Achy or sore? Imagine each part of your body relaxing as you scan it, releasing each body parts’ tension as you leave it to concentrate on the next area.
Once you finish scanning the length of your body, take a moment to reflect on how wonderfully your body has served you. Regardless of how imperfect your body is, how broken it may be, how achy it may be -- it has served you well and ask that it continue to serve you well.
Open your eyes. You will be amazed at how much calmer you feel after just 5 minutes of meditation.
Again, it’s okay if your meditation isn’t “correct”. Just start anyway, and it will come to you gradually with practice. I guarantee you will feel much more relaxed and ready to face your day, regardless of how stress-filled and busy it is. Just try it, and you will see what I mean.