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02/07/2026

Can we please go inside instead of playing in the snow so your mom doesn’t worry about you.

01/26/2026

The difference between horses and donkeys…..correction male donkeys.
Horses don’t just embrace the suck they secretly enjoy the challenge of it. And let this be a lesson even through storms us ladies need to stick together.

I have spent my career working with, training, caring for, and truly experiencing animals.My parents like to tell storie...
01/26/2026

I have spent my career working with, training, caring for, and truly experiencing animals.

My parents like to tell stories of me as a small child—risking my own safety to save a neighborhood cat, leaving me bloody and shaken, clutching a scruffy animal in my little hands. I think, even then, I knew I would walk with animals. I didn’t yet have the language for it, but I knew how I saw them: as sentient beings—deserving of protection, of compassionate touch, and, many times, of my words.

I was an extremely shy child. So shy, in fact, that my parents put me into speech therapy. What they didn’t realize was that I spoke just fine—just not to humans. Animals captivated me even then. Somewhere deep inside, I knew I would find a way to walk and talk for them.

For years, I spent countless hours training animals in ways that encouraged participation without fear—methods rooted in choice, trust, and communication rather than control. Education felt less like rigid instruction and more like a conversation.

And yet, no matter how many books I read, seminars I attended, or clinics I studied under, there were always some animals I couldn’t quite reach. Ones that felt locked behind something I didn’t yet have the key to.

Eventually, I realized something was missing.

So I began studying the body—how it functions, how it adapts, and what happens when it becomes fractured. And then the realization hit me like a flashing neon light:

A sentient being’s nervous system will always prioritize survival over repair.

When safety is absent, every system in the body becomes vulnerable to breakdown. What we often label as a “behavior problem” or illness is not the root issue—it is a symptom. A symptom of a nervous system that is not regulated.

An animal must be regulated before any meaningful correction can occur.

Take the dog who is reactive to noises in the house. Yes, we can condition an alternate behavior. We can manage the outward expression. But if the underlying lack of safety remains, so does the problem—just in a different form.

People often ask me what I do.
“What is bodywork?”

I usually explain the modalities, the techniques, the ways I support the body’s ability to heal itself.

But what do I really do?

I create a sense of safety within the animal’s body.

Before a horse can feel safe in a trailer, a dog can feel safe in a car, or a cat can feel safe in a carrier, they must first feel safe inside themselves.

If they once knew safety, I help their body remember it.
If they never knew safety, I help their nervous system discover that space—through touch, presence, and respect.

Safety is not optional. It is vital to the health of both humans and animals. And if we expect animals to regulate their behavior, respond to our needs, and function within a human-designed world, then we must first understand what allows them to feel safe—
in their homes,
in our communities
and most importantly,
in their own bodies.

Everyone can help animals experience safety within their bodies, the first step is to listen, to truely hear them. Then ask what they need to feel safe.

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01/24/2026

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Superman, Kryptonite, and Why We Keep Freaking Horses Out🦸‍♂️

Let’s start with Superman.

Superman is absurdly strong. Faster than a speeding bullet, etc. But the thing that brings him undone is not a bigger punch or a clever argument. It is kryptonite. A very specific weakness that targets the very thing that makes him powerful.

If you want to destabilise any organism, you do not attack what it is bad at. You attack what it relies on most.

Humans understand this instinctively. Our superpower is our mind. We plan, imagine, remember, anticipate, narrate, catastrophise. So if you want to break a human, you target their thinking. Trap them in situations they cannot reason their way out of. Haunt them with stories. Keep them awake with anxiety about the future or replay the past until it corrodes the present.

We get this. Entire industries exist around it.

What we consistently fail to grasp is that horses are not humans with hooves.

A horse’s superpower is not cognition. It is athleticism. Movement. Balance. The ability to organise their body at speed, under load, against gravity, with extraordinary precision.

And that is exactly where their kryptonite lives.

For a horse to move with power and agility, their body must function across three frames of movement. Side-to-side bending. Flexion and extension of the spine. And the one almost nobody talks about, rotation of the barrel left and right.

Those three frames are constantly adjusting, even when the horse is standing still. Micro-adjustments to stay upright. To distribute force. To manage load as each hoof meets the ground. This is not optional. This is survival physics.

So what freaks a horse out?

Anything that restricts those frames.😱

Joint restriction. Pain. Tissue breakdown. Loss of load-bearing capacity. Subtle asymmetries that reduce how force can be absorbed and redirected. You might not see it. They might still gallop in the paddock. Just like a person can laugh while struggling with anxiety.

Horses are exceptional compensators. Four legs buy them options. They reorganise constantly. They cope.
Until we show up.

Then we sit on their backs. Add load from above. Ask them to move on a line, in a posture, at a tempo they did not choose. And we are often oblivious to the fact that we are demanding precision from a body that is already negotiating kryptonite.

We would never deliberately terrorise a human with words or psychological pressure and call it kindness. Yet we routinely destabilise a horse’s balance, restrict their movement, and then moralise their behaviour when they struggle.😑

Here is the uncomfortable bit.

Much of what gets labelled as trauma in horses is not narrative. It is physical. It lives in the frames.

Yes, horses form associations. But they do not ruminate on identity, meaning, or consent. Their nervous system is organised around movement and balance. When those are compromised, everything else deteriorates.

So no, honouring a horse’s “no” is not the solution. Waiting for consent is not insight. Granting agency without restoring physical capacity is not ethical. It is projection.

If you want to help a horse, give them back their movement. Restore their frames. Train gymnastic function.

Examine how your management, riding, and expectations create the very kryptonite you claim to be protecting them from.

Stop confusing human psychological reality with equine biological reality.

Because until you understand what actually destabilises a horse, your compassion is just well-intentioned interference dressed up as virtue.

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Steal it, repackage it, or AI-wash it and call it yours, and that will be your kryptonite.🤥

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Acknowledgements: Tami Elkayam Equine Bodywork for helping me see krytonite 🙏

01/23/2026

Blanket time, we let them grow coats and be nudists like they wanted but the temps wind chill and snow storm coming, and the fact that some of these kids refuse to go in their cozy homes and instead stand out in the horrid weather like they are homeless. So I said blankets make mom feel better…..

01/20/2026
01/15/2026

After a VERY expensive colic surgery I have learned preventing the colic is much more cost effective.

Rather than treating colic after it starts, this approach strengthens the systems that prevent it. Bodywork is part of our routine when temperature changes or we anticipate stress on our horses that are most susceptable.

01/15/2026

Big temperature change coming!!
Why bodywork is essential with colic prone horses!

Doing bodywork before an expected temperature change is especially helpful for a horse prone to colic because weather shifts strongly affect the nervous system, circulation, fascia, and gut motility—all key players in digestive health.

01/11/2026

Gwen always loves this point, watch her response.

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