10/03/2026
If In Doubt, Help Out
I am a very infrequent flyer, but I flew from our little Jamestown, North Dakota to the massive Denver International Airport this summer to hike on Pike's Peak.
I spent an evening acclimating to the high elevation (not long enough!), spent a day hiking the lower elevations of Pike's Peak (darn altitude sickness!), and a day exploring the area with my sister and her family.
The last morning, they dropped me at the airport with my backpack and my walking stick. I waved goodbye, finished off my hot tea (those darn rules about liquids at TSA!), and headed inside.
The line to get through security was long! The people were lined up outside the screening room, around the corner, and through several of those zigzag rope sections. Queues, right?
Anyway, I was just about ready to get in the really long line line when a uniformed agent pointed to me and said, "Come this way."
Oh crap, I thought. What did I do wrong? My bottle of hot tea is empty. I'm not carrying anything that looks suspicious. What's going on?
They opened a side door and very politely inserted me into line just a few feet behind a TSA agent, and had me cut in there. "Here you go, ma'am. Have a nice day!"
Wow! What is this unexpected kindness? Is Denver trying their version of North Dakota Nice?
Later, as I walked down the concourse toward my gate, a young airport employee pushing an empty wheelchair came alongside me and matched my pace. I chatted with him for a bit before arriving at my gate. He waved as we parted ways.
Huh, that sure was a nice kid. This airport seems to be full of really helpful staff members.
As I shrugged off my backpack, I shifted my walking stick to my other hand, and then it hit me.
These staff members are trained to watch for people with potential disabilities and to help these people the best way they can. I was carrying my walking stick simply because I had no place to stow it in my teeny tiny backpack. And as long as I'm holding it, I might as well use it, right? After all, I had just hiked 11 miles exploring the lower regions of Pike's Peak and Garden of the Gods and other areas, and my quads were still sore from all the uphill and downhill climbing! I could speed-walk the concourse with the best of them, but stairs still burned my muscles!
Anyway, back on track here. The airport workers were trained to spot potential disabilities and to help. I wasn't asked if I was disabled. I was just given the benefit of the doubt and was helped.
I think their policy speaks volumes to how we can treat those around us. We don't know what's really going on in people's lives, and we don't need to verify their suffering before showing kindness. It costs me nothing to choose kindness over judgment, bitterness, rage, or (worst of all) indifference.
Maybe that person didn't need your smile. But maybe they did.
So offer what you can, when you can. You just never know!
Matthew 25:37-40:
“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’ “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
(Picture of me with my little backpack and my walking stick horsing around at the top of Manitou Incline which connects to Pike's Peak.)