01/16/2026
We had a terrible start to our calving season with a prolapse on a first calf heifer.
My favorite heifer. Daffy.
We got her uterus back in, stitched her up and got her to a dry pen with her calf. I knew the likely outcome was grim, but I prayed anyways.
She ate, drank and let her calf nurse. It was her instinct to be a good cow.
We went to bed that night hopeful and saying a few extra prayers..
But as fate would have it, she pr*****ed again and died. On an early morning check we found her. Her calf next to her, trying to suck.
Heartbreaking.
The sweet, little heifer calf followed us into the shed. She knew we were there for her.
Our first bottle calf in 9 years of owning our small herd of cows. The Lord has blessed us in that way.
I don't quite have the words to talk about this loss. They say it's all a part of it. With livestock, comes deadstock. And I understand that...
We've had to make hard decisions before. Culling cows that don't work out. I get the business side of cattle,
BUT....
The dynamic changes a bit when you choose to make a heifer into your daughter's show heifer.
Animal care is of the utmost importance to every farmer and rancher, but when you raise show stock, you handle those animals considerably more.
Early mornings and late nights devoted to that show heifer.
Family time spent feeding, leading and doing their hair routine. Hands on, side by side.
Every. Day.
The bond that comes from the amount of time spent with show cattle is unlike any other.
So, if I may say, this loss hits different.
Yes, its financially a loss for our farm, but the potential this heifer had to make a big impact on our herd was great - and I think thats what stings the most.
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Rest easy, Daffy. We'll keep your little lady fed and safe.
Heaven gained a good cow - and yes, I believe all {good} cows go to Heaven ❤️