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08/08/2026

Core strength, flexibility and cardiovascular ability are an uncountable part of riding ability.

Sometimes we keep correcting the same riding problem over and over when the real issue is not that the student does not understand what we are asking, it's because their body simply cannot maintain it yet.

The rider who repeatedly loses their two point after half a lap may understand the position perfectly but their legs and core may just fatigue quickly. The rider who starts gripping harder as the lesson progresses may simply be running out of strength and stability. This can happen with children, teenagers, adult beginners, returning riders, and even experienced riders who only get in the saddle once or twice a week.

Riding requires a surprising amount of physical capacity. Riders need enough core strength to stabilize themselves without hanging on the reins. They need leg strength and endurance to maintain position without gripping. They need hip, ankle, and hamstring mobility to sit correctly without forcing their body into place. They also need enough cardiovascular endurance to continue thinking, reacting, and learning once the physical work becomes harder.

That is why some position problems become dramatically worse toward the end of a lesson. At the beginning, the rider looks reasonably balanced. Twenty or thirty minutes later, the shoulders start collapsing, the lower leg becomes unstable, the hands get busy, the knees begin gripping, and every correction seems to disappear within a few strides. At that point, continuing to repeat the same correction may not accomplish very much as fatigue has become part of the equation.

This is where instructors can start looking beyond simply telling the rider WHAT to fix and begin asking WHY they cannot maintain the correction. Can they physically hold two-point for thirty seconds? Can they balance on one leg? Do they have enough ankle mobility to allow the heel to sink naturally? Can they stabilize their torso without bracing? Can they post the trot for several minutes without becoming completely exhausted?

Those simple observations can tell us quite a bit about what is happening in the saddle. This does not mean riding instructors need to become personal trainers, and it certainly does not mean turning lessons into workout but sometimes the solution is incredibly simple. A few minutes of mobility work before mounting. Short two point intervals instead of one exhausting hold. A couple of basic exercises for the rider to practice between lessons.

Encouraging students to walk, swim, bike, do yoga, strength train, or simply become more physically active outside the barn. Most importantly, explain the connection. Instead of repeatedly saying, “Stop gripping with your knees,” you might explain that the rider is gripping because their core and lower leg are getting tired. Instead of constantly saying, “Keep your heels down,” explain that limited ankle mobility may be making the position difficult. That changes the conversation from “You keep doing this wrong” to “Here is what your body needs in order to make this easier.”

It can also be incredibly encouraging for students. Sometimes riders become frustrated because they know what they are supposed to do but cannot seem to make their body cooperate. Understanding that strength, endurance, balance, and mobility can be developed gives them something concrete to work toward.

We should also remember the horse in this conversation too. The stronger and more balanced a rider becomes, the easier it is for them to stay with the horse's movement instead of bouncing, gripping, collapsing, or balancing on the reins. Improving rider fitness is not just about prettier equitation. It can improve communication, safety, and the experience for the lesson horse underneath them.

Riding absolutely develops fitness, but for many students, riding once or twice a week may not provide enough repetition to build every physical quality they need. Sometimes the best thing we can do as instructors is recognize that another riding correction is not the answer and that the rider may simply need to become physically capable of doing what we are asking.

Have you ever had a student whose position improved dramatically once they worked on strength, flexibility, balance, or endurance outside of their lessons?

08/02/2026

Excellent!

The Control Paradox (The Safety Conscious Better Read this....)🔥

Imagine you're riding quietly along a bush track. Your horse has been relaxed all morning when he suddenly raises his head, pricks his ears and slows his walk. You can't see anything unusual, but you can feel that something has changed.

Within seconds your brain begins doing what human brains do best. It starts searching for certainty.😰

You wonder whether he's worried or simply curious. You wonder if he's about to spook or if he's just looking. You wonder whether you should turn around, push on, get off, redirect his attention or simply wait. Then comes the inevitable question that quietly haunts most horse owners.

What am I missing?😱

It's a perfectly reasonable question.

It's also, I suspect, the beginning of a rather unfortunate misunderstanding.😕

Most of us have been sold the idea that somewhere inside our horse's behaviour lies the answer. If we could just become a little better at reading ears, eyes, breathing, posture and muscle tension, there would eventually come a glorious day when uncertainty would pack its bags, thank us for the lesson and quietly leave the property.

It's an attractive theory.😬

It is also one that appears to have escaped the attention of horses.🫠

Horses continue to react to birds they didn't expect, kangaroos they didn't schedule and plastic bags that have absolutely no regard for anyone's carefully constructed behavioural framework. Reality, rather inconveniently, refuses to pause while we finish interpreting it.

The interesting part isn't that horses do this. They're highly reactive animals. Reacting quickly has been a remarkably successful survival strategy for several million years.

The interesting part is what happens to us.

Most people think they're trying to understand their horse.😕

I don't think they are.

I think they're trying to escape uncertainty.

There's an important difference.

When we ask, "Is he about to spook?" what we're often really asking is, "Am I safe?"

When we ask, "Am I missing something?" we're often really asking, "How do I stop something bad from happening?"

When we ask, "What should I do?" we're often hoping there is one correct answer that will guarantee the right outcome.

In other words, we are not simply trying to understand our horse.

We are trying to eliminate uncertainty.😥

When uncertainty becomes the problem, our attention quietly shifts. Instead of thinking about where we want to ride, what we want our horse to do, how balanced we are or how we might help the horse stay organised, we begin searching for clues.

Every ear flick becomes evidence. Every hesitation requires interpretation. Every change in posture feels like another piece of a puzzle that, if solved correctly, will finally reveal the secret to never being caught by surprise again.

At some point we've stopped riding our horse and started conducting a behavioural investigation.

This is what I call The Control Paradox.

The harder we try to eliminate uncertainty, the more uncertainty occupies our attention.🤯

Ironically, that often leaves us with less attention for the things that genuinely improve both safety and confidence.😎

Experienced horse people are certainly observing their horse, but observation is only one part of what they are doing. At any moment they are balancing three jobs simultaneously.

Firstly, they are GUIDING the horse. They are giving the horse something meaningful to organise itself around through clear direction, purposeful movement and thoughtful communication. They are helping the horse know where to place its attention rather than leaving it to become absorbed by the environment.

Secondly, they are SUPPORTING the horse. If they notice stress beginning to rise, they adapt. They might simplify the task, create more space, redirect the horse's attention or ask for something familiar. Their goal is not to prevent the horse from ever feeling worried. Their goal is to help the horse regain organisation and confidence.

Finally, they are observing. They are aware of the horse, the environment and themselves. They notice changes in posture, breathing, attention and behaviour. However, they are not observing to eliminate uncertainty. They are observing so they can make BETTER decisions.

That is an important distinction.

Observation is not the job.

Observation informs the job.❗

The real work is guiding. The real work is making decisions. The real work is preparing yourself and your horse for the reality that unexpected things will happen.

I think this is where many people unintentionally INCREASE their own risk. They invest enormous effort trying to become better at predicting their horse, when their greatest gains will usually come from preparing themselves.⚠️

Preparation looks very different from prediction.

Preparation means developing a balanced, independent seat so you can stay with your horse when they move unexpectedly. It means developing soft, educated hands that help rather than hinder. It means learning to make good decisions under pressure. It means preparing your horse through thoughtful, progressive training so that looking to you becomes a familiar and rewarding strategy when uncertainty arises.🙌

None of those things stop birds flying from bushes.

None of them stop kangaroos appearing beside the track.

None of them guarantee your horse won't react.

What they do is PREPARE both of you to respond well when reality inevitably refuses to follow the plan.

That's where confidence comes from.✅

Not from believing you'll eventually predict every reaction, but from trusting your own preparation.

Over time, your horse begins to trust it too.

Your horse discovers that when the world becomes uncertain, you remain organised enough to provide direction. You don't need to know exactly what is about to happen next. You simply need the skills to help both of you navigate whatever does happen.

Perhaps that's the real lesson.

The goal of horsemanship isn't to eliminate uncertainty.

The goal is to become so prepared, so thoughtful and so competent that uncertainty no longer needs to CONTROL your attention.

Don't organise your attention around trying to predict your horse.

Organise it around becoming someone your horse can confidently follow....and you can LEARN to do this, you seriously can.

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07/21/2026

Et oui.
At AOPF Stables we want to be sure that horses are horses first and before anything else. They seem to appreciate that and give their riders nice rides.
Everybody is different, every horse is as well. They are living beings with their own feelings, fears and capabilities. They have no bad plan, they just feel the moment and are so resilient we forget they can also think on their own. We must respect who they are and understand how they think, give them the opportunity to understand what we are asking, not forcing.
Every ride is more a psychological meeting than a sport performance. And when both rider and horse understand each other with their own agreement, then the sport performance is there and can last….

Ce soir, je suis triste. Et je suis en colère!

Les cas s'accumulent. Et, pire encore, ils se ressemblent.

Des chevaux de 5, 6, 7 ans. Des chevaux stressés et/ou explosifs, qui se cabrent, s'acculent, éjectent leur cavalier, se mordent les lèvres. D'autres, au contraire, se sont éteints. Ils se renferment, semblent absents, presque dépressifs. Tous racontent la même histoire : celle de l'inconfort, de l'incompréhension, de la peur.

Des corps déjà marqués. Des corps figés, des CPE, des gorges de pigeon. Des chevaux qui n'ont pas ou plus confiance ni en l'humain, ni en leur environnement.

Et en face d'eux, des propriétaires désemparés.

Des gens qui aiment leur cheval, qui veulent bien faire, mais pour qui chaque sortie devient une épreuve. Parfois un danger. Des personnes qui finissent par se demander : " Est-ce qu'il ne serait pas plus juste d'arrêter de lui demander quoi que ce soit ?" Ou qui envisagent de le vendre... mais à qui ? Pour quoi ?

Parce qu'on le sait tous : dans les mauvais camions, il n'y a pas que des chevaux de foire ou de viande. Il y a aussi tous ceux-là.

Les chevaux cassés.

Non, pas forcément battus.

Brisés.

Brisés par des façons de faire humaines.

Sevrés trop tôt. Déplacés quatre fois avant leurs trois ans. Débourrés trop jeunes. Trop vite. Poussés avant d'être prêts, dans leur tête comme dans leur corps.

Alors, au début, ils encaissent.

Chez ceux qui les "valorisent", ça passe. Parce qu'ils n'ont pas vraiment le choix. Parce qu'on sait parfois les fatiguer juste assez. Les contraindre juste assez. Les calmer chimiquement, parfois.

Puis ils grandissent. Ils sont vendus.

Ils reprennent parfois de l'état, de la maturité.

Et un jour, ils disent "non".

Les premières chutes arrivent. Les défenses. Les peurs. Le cercle vicieux commence.

Mais ce n'est pas grave, paraît-il.

Ils ont fait les 3 ans.
Les cycles libres, classiques.
Ils sont indicés.
Ils ont enchaîné 110.
Ils ont fait de " l'Amat".

Je ne sais plus s'il faut en rire... ou en pleurer.

Parce qu'en attendant, ils tremblent quand on apporte la selle. Le montoir devient une vraie galère. Faire un kilomètre en extérieur relève de l'exploit. Entrer sur une piste les tétanise. Ils refusent au premier obstacle. Ils tractent en main parce qu'ils sont paniqués. Le galop est chaotique, à la longe comme montés.

Et je pourrais continuer encore longtemps.

Sans oublier les fameux "réformés de course".

Réformés ?

À trois ans, annoncés comme "prêts pour du CSO"... Est-ce vraiment ça, une réforme ? Ou simplement un autre modèle économique ?

L'idée serait peut-être leur laisser le temps de grandir. De comprendre. D'être des chevaux avant d'être des produits.

Mais ça rapporte moins.

Alors on continue.

Et oui, certains s'en sortent bien.

Heureusement.

Mais pour tous les autres ?

À ceux-là, on répond :
"Vends-le."
"Remets-la à l'élevage."
"Ton cheval est compliqué."

Comme si le problème venait de lui.

Comme s'il avait choisi.

Et les cavaliers ?

Ce n'est pas mieux.

Certains montent depuis des années. Ils sortent en concours. Ils collectionnent les galops.

Et pourtant...

On ne leur a jamais appris à comprendre un cheval.

Ils découvrent le langage du corps. Le sens des aides. Les besoins fondamentaux. Les émotions. La communication non verbale.

Certains aussi sont cassés ou dégoûtés.

Alors oui.

Je suis triste.

Et je suis en colère.

Parce que je les vois.

Ces chevaux cassés.

Ces cavaliers perdus.

Ces propriétaires qui pleurent dans leur voiture après une séance. Ceux qui finissent à l'hôpital. Ceux qui culpabilisent alors qu'ils ne font que payer les erreurs d'un système qui les dépasse.

Je leur dis que ce n'est pas de leur faute.

Je leur dis qu'il va falloir tout reprendre.

Mais reprendre à zéro serait déjà un luxe.

Souvent, on repart de -10.

Parfois de -100.

Parfois de -200.

Parce qu'il faut reconstruire au-dessus des douleurs, des traumatismes, des souvenirs qui reviennent sans prévenir.

Et ces chevaux...

Je vois leurs lèvres qui se pincent.

Je vois leur peur avant même que je leur demande quoi que ce soit.

Je vois ceux qui n'osent plus essayer.

Ceux qui ont appris que l'incompréhension était toujours suivie d'une sanction.

Alors, souvent, je leur demande pardon.

Pardon de devoir encore demander.

Pardon de représenter, malgré moi, un humain de plus.

Et on recommence.

Doucement.

Patiemment.

En faisant un peu attention à sa propre sécurité.

On leur apprend qu'ils ont le droit d'avoir peur. Qu'ils auront toujours une solution. Qu'ils peuvent réfléchir. Qu'ils peuvent réussir. On essaie de rendre le travail agréable. De leur rendre leur curiosité. Leur confiance.

Et le plus beau moment...

C'est celui où leur regard change.

Celui où ils soufflent.

Celui où ils comprennent.

Celui où leur propriétaire retrouve le sourire.

Je ne prétends pas détenir la vérité.

Je ne prétends pas tout faire parfaitement.

Je ne suis pas contre les concours.

Oui, certains chevaux vivent plutôt bien ce parcours.

Oui, certains réformés de course connaissent ensuite une vie merveilleuse.

Mais le constat est là.

Les cas s'accumulent.

Et ils se ressemblent.

Alors je me pose toujours la même question.

"Comment peut-on briser autant de chevaux... simplement parce qu'on n'a pas su leur laisser le temps d'être des chevaux ?"

Et malgré tout...

Je continuerai...pour les cassés.

Et parce qu'il existe aussi des chevaux qui naissent bien, grandissent bien, vivent et travaillent bien.

Des professionnels. Des éleveurs. Des cavaliers qui font autrement.

À tous ceux-là...

Merci.

Parce que le véritable progrès ne se mesure pas au nombre de chevaux performants, mais au nombre de chevaux que l'on n'a pas brisés en chemin.

07/12/2026

Horses are meant to roam around and in herd setting. So much less health problem with more turn out!

Most barns in America operate on a schedule that looks something like this: horses come in from the paddocks in the early afternoon, stand in stalls through the night, get turned out in the morning, then after the feeding and mucking is done, come back in sometime in the early afternoon, and stand in their stalls again through the late afternoon, evening, and night, Piper Klemm writes.

If you examine it honestly from the horse’s perspective, from the barn management perspective, and from the perspective of everyone who needs access to those horses during the day, it is also, in some cases, exactly backwards. While night turnout in the summer or heat is not a radical idea, it is time for it to be given more and serious thought for year round horse management.

Research shows that horses are happiest and healthiest with regular turnout, and that allowing horses freedom of movement and social interaction fulfills basic needs that support equine welfare. The question is not whether turnout matters (that is settled) but how much of it the horse actually gets under the typical schedule. In most working hunter-jumper barns, the honest answer is somewhere between six and eight hours on a good day, and considerably less on busy show prep days, bad weather days, or days when the schedule simply runs long. Night turnout, by contrast, gives a horse the entire dark stretch of hours — realistically twelve to sixteen hours outside, moving, grazing, breathing fresh air, and doing what horses are physiologically built to do.

Researchers have found that animals in natural settings spend significantly more time in restorative rest cycles compared to stalled counterparts, and that the physical space of a field encourages low-impact movement that reduces joint stiffness while building muscle tone. A lack of turnout is linked to stereotypic behavior, digestive problems, and weaker musculoskeletal tissues. Every extra hour outside is an hour of circulation, hoof stimulation, gut motility, and mental decompression that the stall simply cannot replicate regardless of how well it is managed.

📎 Continue reading this article at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2026/07/08/the-case-for-night-turnout-year-round-why-flipping-the-schedule-is-worth-considering/

07/04/2026

HAPPY 250th!

06/10/2026

Very valuable read

The Broken Leg Test
(...And Why We Can Misunderstand Horse Behaviour)
[Yes, its long - but reading this might change what you can see]

One of the most fascinating things I observe in the horse world is how often people separate behaviour from the body.

A horse develops separation anxiety. A horse becomes difficult to load. A horse starts rushing under saddle, becomes reactive, struggles to leave the property, or suddenly becomes emotional and difficult to handle. Almost immediately, the conversation turns to behaviour.

How do we stop it?

How do we train through it?

How do we fix it?

Yet what often gets overlooked is a much simpler question: what might be making this horse struggle to cope in the first place?

What I find particularly interesting is that most people would immediately understand this relationship in themselves. If your knees hurt, you've had a terrible night's sleep, you've got a migraine, and someone asks you to perform a difficult task, your emotional resilience drops. You become less patient, less confident, more reactive, more argumentative and more likely to avoid the task to do it.

Most people understand this intuitively.

Yet somehow when the horse is footsore, arthritic, weak, unbalanced, exhausted, stressed, or struggling to cope with its environment, that relationship often disappears from our thinking.

The behaviour becomes separated from the body.

I don't think this is really a horse problem.

I think it's a human cognition problem - let me explain.

1️⃣ We See Behaviour, Not Capacity

Behaviour is obvious. Capacity is not.

We can see a horse refusing to load, calling out, rushing, bucking, spooking, or becoming emotional. What we often cannot see are the subtle factors that may be reducing the horse's ability to cope, such as sole soreness, arthritis, muscular fatigue, weakness, poor balance, or chronic discomfort.

Humans naturally focus on what they can see. The behaviour becomes the problem, while the factors contributing to the behaviour remain hidden.

2️⃣ We Turn Behaviour Into Character

Instead of asking, "Why might this horse be struggling?" we often ask, "Why is this horse doing this?"

That subtle shift changes everything.

The horse becomes stubborn, naughty, disrespectful, emotional, insecure, or lacking confidence.

We stop investigating the horse's circumstances and start assigning personality traits.

The conversation shifts from capacity to character.

3️⃣ We Think Pain Must Be Obvious

Many people unconsciously assume that if a horse isn't obviously lame, it must be fine.

Unfortunately, biology doesn't work that way.

A horse doesn't need to be severely lame before physical discomfort starts influencing behaviour. Small deficits matter. A horse can be slightly sore, slightly fatigued, slightly unstable, or slightly uncomfortable, and the cumulative effect can dramatically reduce its ability to cope.

4️⃣ We Separate Emotion From Physiology

Fear, frustration, anxiety, and avoidance are not just psychological experiences. They are influenced by the state of the body.

When a horse feels physically vulnerable, its nervous system becomes more cautious. The horse becomes more sensitive to risk.

From an evolutionary perspective, that makes perfect sense.

A vulnerable animal should be more cautious.

5️⃣ We Focus on Behavioural Solutions

To be clear, many behavioural problems are training problems.

The horse may not understand what is being asked. It may lack confidence, motivation, or clear guidance. Good training matters and often resolves these issues.

The problem arises when good training ISN'T working.

The horse understands.

The horse has previously coped.

The rider is being fair and effective.

Yet the behaviour is changing or deteriorating.

Those are the situations that should make us curious.

6️⃣We Prefer Simple Explanations

Humans like certainty.

"He has separation anxiety."

"She lacks confidence."

"He's emotional."

The reality is often more complicated. Behaviour may reflect the combined effects of physical discomfort, stress, fitness, sleep, environment, social pressures, and previous experiences.

Simple labels feel satisfying.

Unfortunately, they often stop us investigating further.

7️⃣We Like Explanations That Protect Our Plans ‼️⚠️

This is perhaps the most uncomfortable reason of all.

If I acknowledge that my horse is uncomfortable, I may need to change my plans. I may need to stop riding, spend money, postpone goals, or rethink my approach.

**Human beings are remarkably good at accepting explanations that allow us to continue doing what we wanted to do anyway.**

Not because we are cruel.

Because we are human.

ENTER THE - BROKEN LEG TEST 💡

A simple way to challenge our assumptions is to apply what I call the Broken Leg Test.

Imagine your horse had a broken leg. Would you expect them to happily leave their paddock mates, calmly load onto a float, enjoy a long trail ride, work in deep sand, perform circles under saddle, or stand quietly while being saddled?

Or would you expect them to become reluctant, emotional, reactive, or unwilling?

The point is not that every behavioural problem is caused by pain.

**The point is that horses do not need a broken leg before physical vulnerability starts influencing behaviour.**

When a horse's behaviour changes unexpectedly, or when good training that should be helping isn't working, ask yourself:⬇️

**Could something be reducing this horse's capacity to cope?**

👉From Character to Capacity

Many people who fall into this trap care deeply about their horses.

The problem is rarely a lack of compassion.

The problem is that humans are naturally poor systems thinkers.

Behaviour is the visible output. The horse's feet, joints, muscles, fitness, sleep, environment, and stress load are often hidden parts of the system.

Yet behaviour is often the most logical thing the horse could do given the state of that system.

Perhaps the question isn't:

*"Why don't people recognise that pain affects behaviour?"*

Perhaps the better question is:

*"Why do people find it so difficult to see behaviour as evidence of the horse's current capacity rather than evidence of the horse's character?"*

That shift takes us from judging the horse to investigating the horse.

And I believe that may be one of the most important welfare skills a horse owner can develop.

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If you find this human side of horsemanship fascinating, it's because it is and understanding can a big impact.
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05/31/2026

This!

05/28/2026

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05/23/2026

This is so obvious. And BTW, do you know that Phenylbutazone has been removed from the market in human uses for GI and kidney side effects, about35-49 years ago.
I was so shocked when I came to the U.S to see how often, long and without second thoughts this drug was/is used in horses!

Phenylbutazone—nicknamed “bute”—is one of the most widely used painkillers in horses. It’s cheap, effective, and commonly given for everything from arthritis to post-competition soreness. But there’s a well-known catch: bute can potentially cause gastrointestinal ulceration, and by the time a horse shows obvious signs of stomach or gut trouble, significant damage may already have occurred. This study set out to find early warning signals in the body — measurable proteins that could flag the problem before it gets serious.

The researchers used a cutting-edge technique called proteomics, which is essentially a large-scale scan of all the proteins present in a biological sample. They compared protein expression in the blood and f***s of seven horses treated with a standard clinical dose of bute (4.4 mg/kg) against seven horses given a placebo. Think of it like running a detailed ingredient check on the body’s chemistry before and after the drug — looking for anything that changed in meaningful ways.

The results were striking in scope. The analysis identified over 5,000 proteins in blood and over 3,500 in f***l samples, ultimately finding 226 significant proteins in blood and 181 in f***l samples that were notably different between the bute-treated and control groups.

One protein stood out from the crowd: fatty acid-binding protein 6 (FABP6). This protein, found in the intestinal lining, is normally involved in absorbing fats, but it leaks into the bloodstream and stool when the gut wall is damaged. The researchers validated FABP6 as a potential biomarker using a standard lab test called an ELISA — an important step toward making any future diagnostic test practical and affordable for veterinary clinics.

Why does this matter for horse owners? Early detection of bute-induced gut injury would be useful for the diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of bute toxicity. Right now, vets often have to rely on scoping the stomach or watching for clinical deterioration. A simple blood or f***l test that could catch gut damage in its earliest stages would allow vets to intervene sooner — adjusting doses, switching medications, or adding gut-protecting treatments before a horse ends up seriously ill.

📎 Continue reading this article at https://www.theplaidhorse.com/2026/05/14/can-a-blood-or-stool-protein-warn-us-when-a-common-horse-painkiller-is-damaging-the-gut/

05/08/2026

We do not take this into consideration often enough!
Being aware and accepting it, is the first step toward recovery!
Stop blaming yourself and your sudden lack of skills. Recognize the change in your psychology and giddy up, you can still ride.
And don’t blame your horse, he probably found out your problem before you, and as a prey animal decided that he needed to take care of himself, since you seemed so disoriented for him.

The invisible weight that no one prepares you for in midlife riding.

When riding begins to feel different, confidence is often the first thing questioned.
But for many women, what’s happening has very little to do with confidence in the way it’s usually understood.

It’s a physiological shift that is not often spoken about in riding, but has a very real impact on how safe, capable, and steady you feel in the saddle.

Hormonal change alters more than just mood.

As oestrogen levels fluctuate and decline, the nervous system becomes more reactive and less buffered. Stress responses can become quicker, stronger, and harder to settle. Situations that once felt manageable can begin to feel sharper, more intense, and less predictable — not because the rider has changed in ability, but because the system regulating those responses has become more reactive.

And something else that comes hand in hand at this stage of life is sleep disruption, which plays a significant role.

When sleep quality drops, resilience drops even further. The ability to process pressure, regulate emotion, and recover from a difficult ride becomes compromised. What might once have been a small wobble can start to carry over, linger, and build.

There are also physical changes to navigate too.🫣

Weight distribution shifts, muscle tone starts to diminish, meaning the way you feel in your body — your balance, your connection, your sense of control — may no longer feel as instinctive as it once did. Even subtle changes here can affect confidence in a way that is difficult to articulate but very easy to feel.

So the experience becomes layered.

There is the riding itself, but also a body that feels different, a system that over-reacts more quickly, and a baseline level of anxiety that is harder to shake. Together, these can create a sense that something is “off,” even when nothing obvious has gone wrong.

From the outside, this is often labelled as a loss of confidence.
From the inside, you just know that it’s more complex than that.

And because this conversation isn’t had openly enough, many women assume it is something they should be able to push through, manage better, or simply ignore.

But riding, as always, has a way of reflecting what is actually happening.

A horse introduces uncertainty by nature. That uncertainty may once have felt manageable, even enjoyable. But when the system is already working harder to regulate itself, the tolerance for that unpredictability narrows.

What feels like you are not quite who you used to be in the saddle is often the system trying to create safety with fewer available resources.

Not because you are no longer a good rider, but because something has changed.

Understanding that matters.

Because it shifts the narrative away from blame, and towards working with the body you are in now — not the one you had ten or twenty years ago - which is why some riders barely recognise themselves anymore.

Your physiology has changed, and accounting for that and starting to work with it instead of against it is the way forward.

Just know that you are not alone.

Anna

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