Greyhaven Sport Horses

Greyhaven Sport Horses -Training showing and sales of sport horses. Available for clinics and remote lessons Conveniently located approximately 15 minutes South of the NYS Thruway.

April til November at Vernon Center - And- Winters in Florida
USEF Certified -over 40 yrs experience winning in multiple disciplines and breed organizations. Greyhaven is a 45 acre facility located in the beautiful hills of Vernon Center NY. Amenities include: Full board training facility -(more info on rates by request) 20 acres of wooded trails, a small Hunter derby course w/ low level

natural obstacles, a meadow in the upper portion of the farm for galloping and a 125’ x 250’ outdoor arena; wonderful for lessons , hacking and the occasional clinic. In this intimate setting the serious minded equestrian enthusiast is well able to concentrate on his or her goals. Whether it be just learning to ride , bringing along a young prospect or training for local or national level competitions. We at Greyhaven have USHJA certified and insured trainer/rider Jennifer Sears-Vanderwerken with over 35 yrs in showing, training and sales of hunters and jumpers. We also invite interested parties to come along for affordable winter showing in Florida! And don't worry pleasure riders are always welcomed too!

06/17/2026
Chase⚡️🦄
06/16/2026

Chase⚡️🦄

06/16/2026

Chase⚡️ having a go at putting a nice little course together today. Wish we could put three days in a row together. Never seems to happen with this weather.🦄💓🙄😂

06/14/2026

LCH Hunter pace today at Fieldstone in Cooperstown NY 💕😁😎🦄🦄🦄🦄

06/13/2026

Most riding instructors did not start this career because they wanted to manage difficult conversations about boundaries. They started it because they love horses and wanted to teach. The instructors who last in this industry are the ones who learned (often the hard way) that boundaries are not optional extras you add once you are established enough to "afford" them. They are part of running a professional program from day one. Here is where boundaries matter most and how to hold them without apology...

1. Your time outside of lessons is yours.
Texts at nine at night about tomorrow's lesson. Calls during dinner about a schedule change. Messages on your day off asking for advice about a horse buying decision. None of this is malicious but most clients genuinely do not think about the fact that you have a life outside of teaching their child to ride. If you respond immediately every time, you train them to expect immediate responses always. Set communication hours and state them clearly in your new client materials. Then actually hold them, even when it feels easier to just answer the message.

2. Your schedule is not infinitely flexible.
The family that needs to move their lesson time again. The parent who wants to add an extra session this week because of an upcoming show. The student who is consistently five minutes late and expects the lesson to run the full length anyway. Every accommodation you make sets an expectation for the next one. A clear scheduling policy communicated at enrollment and held consistently protects your time and your sanity far more effectively than saying yes every time and quietly resenting it later.

3. Rail commentary is not welcome during lessons.
This is one of the hardest boundaries to set because it usually involves a parent who genuinely believes they are helping. A parent calling out instructions from the rail undermines your authority, confuses the student, and turns a structured lesson into a tug of war between two voices. Set this expectation clearly before the first lesson that questions and feedback happen before or after the lesson, not during it. If it happens anyway address it directly and privately. This is not about ego, it is about your student getting one clear consistent voice to learn from.

4. Payment terms are not negotiable on a case by case basis.
The family that is reliably a few days late every month. The client who wants to pay per lesson when your program runs on monthly tuition. The parent who asks for a discount because their child missed two lessons this month. Every exception you make becomes the new expectation for that family and often for others who hear about it. A clear payment policy applied consistently to everyone is not harsh. It is the foundation that makes your program financially sustainable for everyone in it including the horses.

5. "No" is a complete sentence.
You do not owe a lengthy explanation every time you decline a request. No I cannot fit in an extra lesson this week. No I am not available on my day off. No we cannot extend the lesson because you were late. A short, professional, non-apologetic no protects your time and your energy far more effectively than a long justification that invites negotiation. The families who respect your "no" are the ones worth keeping. The ones who push back against it are showing you something important about the relationship.

6. Hold the same standard for everyone.
The boundary that gets broken for your longest standing client or your highest paying family becomes the boundary that does not really exist. Consistency is what makes a boundary a boundary rather than a suggestion. It will occasionally cost you a client who feels entitled to an exception. It will also build you a program full of families who respect your professionalism which is worth significantly more in the long run.

Boundaries are not about being difficult. They are about running a program that is sustainable for you, fair to your students, and respectful of the horses who depend on a schedule and a routine that boundaries help protect.

You are allowed to have them and you do not need to apologize for them. The families and clients worth keeping will respect them without you having to explain why.

What boundary took you the longest to actually hold?

06/11/2026

The most common mistake in rider development is not moving too slowly. It is moving forward before the current level is genuinely ready to support the next one. It usually happens with the best intentions - an enthusiastic student, a willing horse, an instructor who wants to keep the energy high or a pushy parent. A canter that was introduced before the trot was balanced is a canter built on an unstable base. A jump that came before the flatwork was solid is a jump that is going to reveal that gap every single time something goes slightly wrong. Foundations matter more than most students and some instructors give them credit for. Here is why...

1. Rushing creates problems that take longer to fix than building it right would have taken.

A rider who skips the foundational work does not just plateau earlier, they also develop habits and compensations that become increasingly difficult to unravel the longer they are reinforced. The chair seat that developed because the rider started cantering before their balance was ready. The death grip on the reins that formed because the rider was jumping before they had an independent seat. The horse that became dull, tight, or resistant because it was asked to carry an unbalanced rider through movements it was not yet ready for either. These are not minor inconveniences. They are structural problems built into the riding that require going back to properly address. Remember that it is easier to build a new habit than it is to fix an old one!

2. The horse pays the price when foundations are skipped.

A rider who is not ready for a skill does not just struggle with it themselves but they also communicate that struggle directly to the horse through unclear aids, unbalanced weight, and inconsistent contact. A horse carrying a rider who is not yet ready for the canter does not understand why the balance and communication that worked at the trot has suddenly changed. Over time a horse that is consistently asked to work with a rider above their foundation level becomes confused tense and eventually resistant. Not because the horse has a problem but because nobody set either of them up to succeed.

3. Going back to fix the foundation is not a step backward.

This is the one most students and parents struggle with most. Once a rider has experienced the canter or the jump or the lateral movement going back to walk and trot basics feels like regression. It is not - it is the most direct route forward available. A rider who genuinely masters the fundamentals at each level has something to fall back on when the next level gets hard, a foundation of competence and confidence that holds up under pressure rather than crumbling the moment something goes wrong. Every skill in riding is built on top of something else. Balance before rhythm. Rhythm before contact. Contact before collection. Each layer depends completely on the layer beneath it being solid. Rush the lower layers and every layer above them is unstable. Build them properly and each new skill has something real to stand on.

4. As instructors our job is to create the steps, not just the destination.

The students who get to the exciting milestones and actually stay there are the ones whose instructors built enough small achievable steps between where they started and where they were going that there were no gaps when they arrived. Not just getting them to the canter but also building the balance, the independent seat, the correct leg position, and the feel for the horse's rhythm that makes the canter safe and successful when it comes. Every step forward should feel like a natural extension of the step before it and not a giant leap into something the body and the horse are not yet prepared for.

Good riders are not made by how quickly they reach the milestones, they are made by how solidly they built everything that got them there. Take the time to build the foundation and the milestones will come.

How do you handle the conversation with a student or parent who wants to move faster than the foundation supports?

Whatever you gotta do! Do it !  Get it done!  That’s what separates the winners from the losers😎☺️👍🏻 do it happy -do it ...
06/11/2026

Whatever you gotta do! Do it ! Get it done! That’s what separates the winners from the losers😎☺️👍🏻 do it happy -do it sad -do confident- do mad -do it angry -do it broken hearted -whatever you gotta do get it done. Andrew Hoy.

06/11/2026

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Address

2695 North Road
Vernon Center, NY
13477

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 5pm
Tuesday 9am - 5pm
Wednesday 9am - 5pm
Thursday 9am - 5pm
Friday 9am - 5pm
Saturday 9am - 5pm
Sunday 9am - 5pm

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