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Attuned horsemanship; The sense of being seen, being heard, feeling felt and getting gotten.

10/09/2026
10/07/2026

When a horse moves to a new home, people often ask, β€œHow long does it take for them to settle in?”

The honest answer is that there is no single timeline. It depends on the individual horse, their past experiences, their temperament, their health, the environment they have arrived in, and the herd and humans around them.

But one thing is certain.
It is a significant transition for them.

In most cases, the process actually begins before they even arrive. Transport itself is demanding for a horse. Hours of balancing in a moving vehicle, unfamiliar noises, confinement, changes in temperature, and often limited access to water or forage all place strain on the body and nervous system. By the time a horse steps off the trailer, they may already be physically tired and mentally alert.

And then they arrive somewhere completely new.

The landscape is unfamiliar. The smells are different. The sounds are new. They do not yet know where the water is, where the safe resting places are, or where the boundaries of the land lie.

For horses, this is not simply about becoming comfortable. Their nervous system is constantly assessing safety and threat. Every sound, movement, smell, and interaction is information. They are mapping the land, noticing resources, observing the behaviour of other horses, and working out how this new environment functions.

At the same time, they are navigating the social world they have just entered.

For a horse joining an established herd, this can be one of the most challenging parts of the transition. Herds have existing relationships and patterns of interaction. When a newcomer arrives, those patterns shift as horses begin negotiating their relationships with one another and working out how to share space, resources, and proximity.

This can involve tension, posturing, chasing, and sometimes aggression, which is why introductions often need to be managed carefully and gradually. It protects the newcomer, but it also protects the existing herd members whose own sense of stability is being disrupted by the arrival of someone new.

While all of this is happening socially and emotionally, the body is also adjusting physically.

A new home often means different forage, different pasture composition, different hay, and sometimes different water. Those changes alone can influence the digestive system. Stress can also reduce appetite and slow gut motility, which is why the first days and weeks after a move are a time when owners need to observe their horses closely.

Simple things tell you a great deal.

Are they eating normally?
Are they drinking well?
Are they passing manure regularly?
Are gut sounds normal?

These small observations can give early clues about how well a horse is coping with the transition.

Many people use the rough guideline of three days to decompress, three weeks to begin understanding the routine, and three months to truly feel at home. It is a helpful framework, but it is not a rule. Some horses settle quickly. Others need more time to fully relax into a new place.

What helps the most during this period is patience.

On arrival, horses often benefit from simply being allowed to observe. Time to stand quietly, look around, take in the environment, and see other horses without immediately being asked to do anything. Hay, water, and calm surroundings go a long way toward helping the nervous system begin to settle.

What many horses do not need at that moment is pressure.

Starting training immediately, over-handling them, forcing social contact, or assuming that a quiet horse has already settled can create more stress rather than less. Stillness does not always mean relaxation. Sometimes it simply means the horse is overwhelmed and trying to process everything at once.

Settling into a new home is not just about the horse physically being in a new place. Their entire system is reorganising itself. They are learning the land, the herd, the routines, and the humans who will now be part of their world.

Understanding that process, and meeting it with patience and compassion, is one of the most important things we can offer a horse when they arrive somewhere new.

10/04/2026
Tonight, after a really heartfelt conversation with one of my clients, we got talking about the Holy Trinity. God. Jesus...
10/01/2026

Tonight, after a really heartfelt conversation with one of my clients, we got talking about the Holy Trinity. God. Jesus. The Holy Spirit. And how do you actually know when you’re feeling that little nudge from the Holy Spirit?
This morning I heard someone say, β€œI don’t get goosebumps anymore. I get God bumps.”
And man… that hit me.
Because it immediately took me back to when we bought this farm from Jackie.
She told me there was something she needed to tell me about this farm.
So I said, β€œOkay… what is it?”
And she looked at me and said,
β€œJessica, the Holy Spirit is strong here.”
Talk about God bumps.
And now I look at the name Strong Spirit Stables a little differently.
Maybe it was never just a name.
Maybe God was reminding me, even back then, exactly what He was building here.
Looking back, I think that was one of those moments where God was saying, you’re right where you need to be.
And I never questioned it after that.
There have been plenty of times since then when I’ve questioned many things. My direction. My business. My horse training journey. What God is asking me to let go of. What He might be leading me toward next.
But maybe that’s the point.
Sometimes we want the answer right now.
We want to know where we’re going, how it’s going to happen, and what it’s all going to look like.
But God doesn’t always work that way.
Sometimes He just gives you the next step.
So if you’re questioning something in your life right now… maybe this is your reminder to slow down.
Be still.
Pray about it.
Listen.
And then listen some more.
Because sometimes that little feeling in your gut, that unexpected peace, that person who shows up at just the right time, or that door that opens when you weren’t even looking for it…
Maybe it’s not a coincidence.
Maybe it’s the Holy Spirit.
I don’t know what God is working out in your life right now.
But I do know this:
You don’t have to have it all figured out.
You don’t have to know what tomorrow looks like.
You just have to trust Him enough to take the next step.
And if you’re anything like me, sometimes you’ll look back and realize…
He was leading you the whole time. 🀍

09/26/2026

π—§π—›π—œπ—‘π—šπ—¦ π—œβ€™π—©π—˜ π—Ÿπ—˜π—”π—₯π—‘π—˜π—— 𝗦𝗧𝗔π—₯π—§π—œπ—‘π—š π—–π—’π—Ÿπ—§π—¦ β€” 𝗣𝗔π—₯𝗧 π—’π—‘π—˜

Over the years, I’ve become primarily a β€œc**t starter,” and there are a few things about putting those first rides on young horses that I’ve learned, refined, and frankly, changed my mind about.

First, I grew up in a world where a lot of first rides looked very different than what I do today.

Sometimes the first ride happened on a longe line with a β€œsticky” rider β€” often a brave teenager whose primary job was to hang on.

That might come after days or weeks of someone laying over the horse’s back while a handler stayed at the horse’s head, providing distraction or, at the very least, preventing a big reaction.

Then there was the other school of thought…

Throw a cowboy on the c**t in the round pen and let him β€œbuck them out” until the horse realizes the rider isn’t coming off.

But we’ve all seen the movie Spirit, right?

Remember how that worked out for the general? πŸ˜‚

No, I’m not naΓ―ve. Obviously real life isn’t a Disney movie, and those methods have worked for many horses for many years.

But over time, I’ve learned that there’s a much bigger picture to a good first ride.

π—§π—›π—˜ π—™π—œπ—₯𝗦𝗧 π—₯π—œπ——π—˜ π—”π—–π—§π—¨π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿπ—¬ 𝗦𝗧𝗔π—₯𝗧𝗦 π—Ÿπ—’π—‘π—š π—•π—˜π—™π—’π—₯π—˜ 𝗬𝗒𝗨 π—˜π—©π—˜π—₯ π—–π—Ÿπ—œπ— π—• 𝗒𝗑.

The absolute most important things, in my opinion, are the quality of your groundwork, how soft and responsive that horse already is on the ground, how connected they are to you, and whether or not you can accurately read their body language.

How much time you spend preparing your horse with groundwork depends entirely on you, your horse, and whatever their life experience has provided them before this day. I have some c**ts that I could get on in two days and others that needed 30+ days of groundwork before I would consider them even remotely ready.

I see countless videos on social media of people posting β€œfirst rides” where the horse inevitably explodes with the rider.

And while those videos might make for entertaining social media…

π—§π—›π—˜π—¬β€™π—₯π—˜ 𝗖π—₯π—˜π—”π—§π—œπ—‘π—š 𝗔 𝗣π—₯π—’π—•π—Ÿπ—˜π—  π—₯π—œπ—šπ—›π—§ 𝗒𝗙𝗙 π—§π—›π—˜ 𝗕𝗔𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 π—¦π—’π— π—˜π—’π—‘π—˜ π—œπ—¦ π—šπ—’π—œπ—‘π—š 𝗧𝗒 π—›π—”π—©π—˜ 𝗧𝗒 π—™π—œπ—« π—Ÿπ—”π—§π—˜π—₯.

Because 100% of the time, I see a horse that simply wasn’t mentally connected, soft, willing, and ready to be ridden.

There are some things I look for before I ever consider putting a foot in the stirrup.

Is the horse looking off into the distance?

Are the ears and eyes busy?

Is the back hollow and the head high?

Is the horse braced through the body?

Is the rider having to pull the horse’s head around while a hind leg is cocked, ready to escape?

Or maybe the horse is technically standing still…

…but it’s frozen.

π—§π—›π—˜π—₯π—˜ π—œπ—¦ 𝗔 π—•π—œπ—š π——π—œπ—™π—™π—˜π—₯π—˜π—‘π—–π—˜ π—•π—˜π—§π—ͺπ—˜π—˜π—‘ 𝗔 𝗛𝗒π—₯π—¦π—˜ 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 π—œπ—¦ π—¦π—§π—”π—‘π——π—œπ—‘π—š π—¦π—§π—œπ—Ÿπ—Ÿ 𝗔𝗑𝗗 𝗔 𝗛𝗒π—₯π—¦π—˜ 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 π—œπ—¦ 𝗧π—₯π—¨π—Ÿπ—¬ π—₯π—˜π—Ÿπ—”π—«π—˜π——.

A horse can be standing perfectly motionless while mentally being about as far away from β€œready” as it can possibly be.

So what does setting a c**t up for a good first ride actually look like?

One handler with the horse.

The horse standing square, but with a soft body and no brace.

Ears and eyes following the handler with curiosity β€” not fear, resentment, or distraction.

The handler should be able to move the horse forward, backward, and turn the horse around the forehand or haunches with as much softness as possible, or as much firmness as necessary, without creating a big reaction.

π—§π—›π—˜ 𝗛𝗒π—₯π—¦π—˜ π—‘π—˜π—˜π——π—¦ 𝗧𝗒 π—•π—˜ π— π—˜π—‘π—§π—”π—Ÿπ—Ÿπ—¬ π—–π—’π—‘π—‘π—˜π—–π—§π—˜π——, 𝗦𝗒𝗙𝗧, π—ͺπ—œπ—Ÿπ—Ÿπ—œπ—‘π—š, 𝗔𝗑𝗗 π—₯π—˜π—”π——π—¬ π—•π—˜π—™π—’π—₯π—˜ π—ͺπ—˜ π—”π—¦π—ž π—œπ—§ 𝗧𝗒 𝗖𝗔π—₯π—₯𝗬 𝗨𝗦.

And maybe most importantly…

The horse is listening.

Not because it has been trapped, tied down, held by the head, or worn down.

It’s listening because it has learned that being connected to the person in front of it is the safest and most comfortable place to be.

That, to me, is where the first ride begins.

And the actual getting-on part?

That should be almost anticlimactic. πŸ˜‚

Because if I’ve done my job correctly, the horse shouldn’t be learning everything for the first time when I put my foot in the stirrup.

It should already understand how to listen, yield, follow a feel, soften, move its feet, and come back to me when something feels different.

π—§π—›π—˜ π—™π—œπ—₯𝗦𝗧 π—₯π—œπ——π—˜ π—œπ—¦π—‘β€™π—§ π—§π—›π—˜ π—•π—˜π—šπ—œπ—‘π—‘π—œπ—‘π—š 𝗒𝗙 π—§π—›π—˜ π—˜π——π—¨π—–π—”π—§π—œπ—’π—‘. π—œπ—§β€™π—¦ π—§π—›π—˜ π—‘π—˜π—«π—§ π—¦π—§π—˜π—£ π—œπ—‘ 𝗔 π—–π—’π—‘π—©π—˜π—₯π—¦π—”π—§π—œπ—’π—‘ 𝗧𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗛𝗔𝗦 π—”π—Ÿπ—₯π—˜π—”π——π—¬ π—•π—˜π—šπ—¨π—‘ 𝗒𝗑 π—§π—›π—˜ π—šπ—₯𝗒𝗨𝗑𝗗.

And that’s just Part One. There’s a whole lot more to what happens once I actually get on.

To say many people could walk a mile in my shoes for a day, let alone a week, would be a lie.There’s a lot that comes wi...
09/25/2026

To say many people could walk a mile in my shoes for a day, let alone a week, would be a lie.

There’s a lot that comes with this life that people don’t see.

The early mornings. The late nights. The physical work. The mental load. The responsibility of having living, breathing animals depending on you every single day. The decisions. The worry. The sacrifices. The days you’re exhausted but you still have to get up and do it anyway.

And then there’s the part nobody really sees… the emotional weight of caring so deeply about the horses and people you work with.

I’ve built this life because I love it. I’m grateful for it. But loving something doesn’t mean it’s easy.

Sometimes you have to actually live someone’s life to understand the weight they’re carrying.

And honestly… I don’t expect everyone to understand mine.

I just hope they remember there’s always more to the story than what they see from the outside.

09/25/2026

WHY TACK FIT MATTERS
…everything we put onto our horses' bodies impact them, and not always in the best ways.

Most people think β€œtack” and just think saddles-and that's an important piece of tack but what about, saddle pads, bridles, bits, girths, training aids, sport boots…..I’m sure there's more.

Making sure that all of the above mentions β€œfits” our horses (and in some cases us) the best way possible to achieve our riding goals should always be a careful consideration.
I’m not saying we should all go out and take out loans to buy custom tack-BUT we should always strive for more than β€œgood enough”.

As a bodyworker, I have seen muscle atrophy, serious dental issues, chronic poll issues (headaches), and various musculoskeletal problems that become a constant loop of dysfunction for horses-when we settle for good enough. We can do better if we know what to look for!
It would be a disservice to this page if I didn't put emphasis on proper posture and body development while talking about tack fit!

A poorly developed body will always be hard to fit…and you won't create that balance under saddle on a weak horse.

Poor dental care will never allow for a well-fitting bridle and bit…..you don't "just need a different bit”.

Poor hoof health and balance will always create a roadblock in proper posture, development and movement ... .even the most custom tack wont fix that.

I have developed a few online sources to help us learn what is proper and improper and how it can impact the horses.

I have a learning library that covers various topics with the main goal of educating owners and professionals alike to know better so we can do better for the horses!

https://sbw-owners-massage.thinkific.com/courses/compensation-patterns
schaefferbodyworks.com

09/22/2026

One thing I wish more people understood about horse training is that making a behavior uncomfortable enough that a horse stops doing it isn’t always the same thing as actually fixing it.

Rearing, biting, striking, pulling away, running through pressure. Yes, those behaviors can be dangerous and absolutely need to be addressed.

But sometimes the first question shouldn’t be, β€œHow do we punish this enough that they never do it again?”

It should be, β€œWhy is this their answer in the first place?”

Some horses have holes in their foundation. Some never learned appropriate boundaries. Some never learned how to handle pressure, frustration or confusion. Some have learned that a big reaction gets them out of situations they don’t understand.

Understanding the reason doesn’t mean allowing dangerous behavior.

There’s a pretty big difference between making excuses for a horse and understanding what you actually need to teach them.

You can use force to stop the behavior. You can lay one down. You can make the wrong answer really, really uncomfortable.

But if the horse still doesn’t understand what the right answer is, what did you actually teach?

Sometimes good training isn’t about winning the argument.

It’s about figuring out why you’re having the argument in the first place and giving the horse a better answer.

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