10/12/2026
Today was one of the hardest days we’ve had on the homestead. 💔
This is our final update on Mur.
For a long time, we did everything we could to help her. We cared for her, fed her, watched for signs of improvement, and held onto hope that things would get better.
Unfortunately, they didn’t.
Mur continued to decline. She wasn’t eating grass, wouldn’t eat grain, and was barely taking a bottle anymore.
Eventually, we had to face the reality that she wasn’t getting better and that continuing to hold onto hope wasn’t going to change what she was going through.
Today, we made the heartbreaking decision to end her suffering.
This is not an easy thing to share. We loved this little calf, and we wanted so badly for her story to have a different ending.
But this is part of homesteading, too.
We share the new animals, the growing pastures, the fresh eggs, the projects, and all the exciting things happening here at Cedar Porch Homestead. And we love sharing those moments with you.
But not every day is a good day.
Sometimes animals get sick. Sometimes things don’t work out the way we hoped. And sometimes, despite all the time, care, and effort we put into something, we have to make a decision that breaks our hearts.
We believe being transparent about those moments is just as important as sharing the victories.
Homesteading isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. It’s responsibility. It’s sacrifice. It’s caring for the animals entrusted to us, even when doing what’s best for them is the hardest thing we’ve ever had to do.
We wish Mur’s story had ended differently.
Thank you to everyone who followed her journey, offered encouragement, and hoped alongside us that she would recover.
Today, we’re grieving a little, remembering the good moments, and learning to accept that sometimes the kindest thing we can do is let go. ❤️🐄
Rest easy, Mur.